How to get boyfriend from masturbating so much.

beautifulbigred4u · Newbie Joined: 18 Mar 2007 Posts: 2

Hi, I have a boyfriend of five years. We live together. We don't have sex that often anymore, which sucks. He watches porn in the middle of the night when i am sleeping and wacks it. I can't stand it, it bothers me and makes me jealous. I am seriously considering breaking up for good because of this.
I don't know what to do, please help if anyone feels the same way.
Sincerely, giddy girlfriend is jealous

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secret _sexfreak aka mike · Posted: 05/25/07 - 00:21 Post subject:

give him sex!

Call me Birdy · Newbie Joined: 09 Apr 2007 Posts: 20

yes, you need to satisfy his needs, even if you just give him a hand job

Ghost Writer · Posted: 05/27/07 - 20:32 Post subject:

When you see that he is leaving the bed to go watch the porn, wait a few minutes and then walk out to him naked. Now if he is already got himself exposed and playing with himself, reach down and join him. Give him good oral sex slowly, starting out by licking the end of his penisa and then down the shaft which should drive him wild.

Remember he is finding something very erotic about the porn, and well he needs that from you. Take him and put his face into your vaginal area, he should know where to start sticking his tongue from there.

Get a book called Kama Sutra and try these positions together.

Here is just one animated way... there are alot more just click on the side bar on the web site to check them out.

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my2cents · Site Admin Joined: 12 Apr 2007 Posts: 171

Ah yes, after being with someone for a while, and living together as well like you are, things can get, well, old fast. And it seems like he may just be bored with the same routine. It wouldn't be the first time that's happened to a once-happy-in-bed couple. Take a look at whats happening in your relationship. What role do you play in bed? Are you the type that just sort of lets it all happen, in other words, do you let him do all the work? If so, thats a problem right there. Even if you are active participant, things can get boring after a while. Try new activities -read a book on sex and try to find some new things which may interest you enough to try with him. There are lots of different things you can do to spice things up a bit. Does he like you to dress a certain way before sex? Or have you perhaps never tried anything like that? If not, ask him about it. Its also so very easy to get, say, too familiar with each other. What I mean is that when you were just starting to date, I bet you spent time making yourself look good, you know, doing your hair and make-up and just trying to look good for him. If so, do you still make an effort, or has than sort of slipped away? Basically, just take a look at your role in everything. If sex was good in the beginning, then ask yourself what has changed over time about it. I think if you look deeply enough within yourself, you will find the answer. I'm not saying you are to blame for all this, but it just may be that you could be part of the reason. And, of course, he may be slacking somewhere as well. Its time for a good talk with him - when the time is right, that is. Don't force it on him and make him uncomfortable by doing so. Just wait until you feel like he is ready and willing to talk about something so intimate, and bring it up at that time. Good luck. I hope this was of some help to you!

Sonnynme · Newbie Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 1

Why don't you join him? My gf and I are always masturbating together, its fun...

agent10ve · Supporter Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 571

Ah! Do NOT be the kind of girlfriend who wont let her boyfriend masturbate! That's the worst! Masturbation is health, fun and feels amazing. Theres nothing wrong with him pleasing himself. Talk to him and tell him you feel left out though maybe? Maybe either masturbate along with him (like said above) or find some other way to satisfy him. If you don't want to satisfy him, expect him to continue satisfying himself.

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This is like asking yourself to not comb your hair or look in the mirror or wear clothing you like.

Tell you what, when he gets to control exactly what you can or cannot do, don't expect to control him.

And by the way, 5 years with him and you have a trouble with your boyfriend beating off? Are you serious about each other? Do a google search for the latest survery on how many guys masturbate.

Don't be surprised if it's over ninetyfive percent.

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