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thurber
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Posted: 10/01/05 - 02:00 Post subject: I Cant Orgasm During Sex Only Masturbation |
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Hello. I'm 22 year old female and I think I have developed some serious problem. You see, I started using vibrator long before my first sexual intercourse and I believe it leaved a big impact on me.
I'm in one relationship over then a year now and I didn’t orgasm at all, not even once. This has been so frustrating for me.
After every sex, I must masturbate to orgasm, by my self or with a caused by my vibrator masturbation because I have read somewhere that it can lead to desensitization of clitoris.
I don’t know what to do now! Is there anything I could do to solve this problem?
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suzy
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Posted: 10/28/05 - 07:55 Post subject: |
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You see, when I read your post it made me interest about all this. How could this be truth, when almost every woman masturbates before her first sexual intercourse? It means that no one could develop normal orgasm during sex! So, I did a small research on my own and guess what I have found out- it is all just a simple myth.
The idea that frequent and regular masturbation causes desensitization or numbness of the clitoris is nothing more then simple nonsense.
It is proven that masturbation has many good effects on human body such as stress relieving and chance to get familiar with your own body.
So, your problem definitely isn’t in previous “practice” but in your head. You must relax and take it slowly. Feel free to explore the pleasures that come from exploring your own and your partner’s body.
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mes1018
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| Everythings is going to be fine. Keep masturbating and enjoy it! |
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Posted: 06/12/07 - 00:14 Post subject: orgasm |
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| the main reason most women cant orgasm during sex is that they are under to much pressur to have one that it gets diffecult |
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cuckoohead
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Posted: 06/12/07 - 17:10 Post subject: Re: I Cant Orgasm During Sex Only Masturbation |
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Hello. I'm 22 year old female and I think I have developed some serious problem. You see, I started using vibrator long before my first sexual intercourse and I believe it leaved a big impact on me.
I'm in one relationship over then a year now and I didn’t orgasm at all, not even once. This has been so frustrating for me.
After every sex, I must masturbate to orgasm, by my self or with a caused by my vibrator masturbation because I have read somewhere that it can lead to desensitization of clitoris.
I don’t know what to do now! Is there anything I could do to solve this problem?
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Hey thurber it sounds like ur worrying about this too much,just don't think about orgasms during sex,cause than u won't enjoy it,just let loose and have fun,If u don't orgasm after a while than try to see whats wrong |
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