I Wanted It for a Whle but I am Not So Sure Anymore

yelvington · Newbie Joined: 29 Jun 2005 Posts: 21

I broke up with my ex nearly five months ago and while we are still on speaking terms, I'm finding it really hard to maintain a good friendship with him. Sometimes he says things which I find hurtful, but we were best friends for a year before we started dating, so I wanted to salvage friendship for a while but I am not so sure anymore. I am asking here is, can guys and girls really be just good friends after a break-up?

kiecker · Silver Member Joined: 16 Sep 2001 Posts: 292

Honestly, I have never really been able to maintain a friendship with an ex. I don't talk to any of my ex's. anyway... talking to and befriending ex's seem to bother me, not only because we have past that involves more than a "friendship," but it would just weird me out. I was like you first time I wanted to keep good relations, but with time I realized that I can’t. Beside that I wouldn't want to feel like I am jeopardizing anything or making my new partner uncomfortable.

I Wanted It for a Whle but I am Not So Sure Anymore

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