I am an idiot and need help PRECUM!

I am a 19 year old male and have been having sexual intercourse with my girlfriend. The only thing is, I am an idiot, and have not been using a condom. Of course I am aware of the implications of not using a condom(STD wise) but we do that pull out right before you ejaculate deal. I always thought that I could judge when I was about to ejaculate but then I remembered a little thing called Precum. I have been having sex without a condom and I am worried if she is pregnant. I have never ejaculated inside of her but apparently you cannot feel precum and I dont know what to do and I need help.

There is a chance that she can get pregnant, because it is known that pre-cum may cantain some sperm in it, there for it's recommended to always use a condom. You never know it might just not be your lucky day and she just might get pregnant.

Well,she can get preg from pre-cum but it's a 50/50 chance.I have had unprotected sex with my b/f for about 3 months and I have not gotten preg yet.I am now on bc and you should advise your gf to do the same

baby--beautiful wrote:

There is a chance that she can get pregnant, because it is known that pre-cum may cantain some sperm in it, there for it's recommended to always use a condom. You never know it might just not be your lucky day and she just might get pregnant.

AHHH don't stress about ive been with my man for 2 years and we never use a condom and i havent had a scare!! Not even one!! and i got tested to see if i can even have kids and they sayed yes!!! So i would not worry too much!!! And i did that for 4 years with my ex too and never a scare !!! thats 6 years of the pull out method !!! No scare!!! No baby!!! No worries!!!Have fun!! Hope i help!!!

dont some women get pregnant faster than others ? im pretty sure sperm count could be an issue as well ? drugs and alcohol effects these sorts of things. i think ?

Guest wrote:

dont some women get pregnant faster than others ? im pretty sure sperm count could be an issue as well ? drugs and alcohol effects these sorts of things. i think ?

yes. some guys have higher or lower sperm count then others. higher that sperm count is, the higher percentage you can get pregnant faster. and i dont think drugs and alcohol have anything to do with that. i dont know tho.

XjessicaX wrote:

Guest wrote: dont some women get pregnant faster than others ? im pretty sure sperm count could be an issue as well ? drugs and alcohol effects these sorts of things. i think ? yes. some guys have higher or lower sperm count then others. higher that sperm count is, the higher percentage you can get pregnant faster. and i dont think drugs and alcohol have anything to do with that. i dont know tho.

also,some women are VERY fertile!

Guest wrote:

baby--beautiful wrote: There is a chance that she can get pregnant, because it is known that pre-cum may cantain some sperm in it, there for it's recommended to always use a condom. You never know it might just not be your lucky day and she just might get pregnant. AHHH don't stress about ive been with my man for 2 years and we never use a condom and i havent had a scare!! Not even one!! and i got tested to see if i can even have kids and they sayed yes!!! So i would not worry too much!!! And i did that for 4 years with my ex too and never a scare !!! thats 6 years of the pull out method !!! No scare!!! No baby!!! No worries!!!Have fun!! Hope i help!!!

Hello Everyone,

ARE YOU KIDDING ME GUEST? (In your own words: "And i did that for 4 years with my ex too and never a scare !!! thats 6 years of the pull out method !!! No scare!!! No baby!!! No worries!!! ") How irresponsible and ignorant are you? I respect your decisions because well...you are entitled to them, and wouldn't have said anything if you posted that nonsense for the world to read in a "just because forum/blog" . HOWEVER, you are giving advise to someone that obviously needs "Real advise" in a respectable forum and reputable website. What if this couple doesn't get as "lucky as you" and get pregnant??? or worse yet practice that with a new partner that is infected? You can't give advise to someone thinking just of YOU! That's not even the point here!

Additionally, do you even love yourself? How can you have unprotected sex at this time and age where STD's are ONE of the greatest threats and death causals of the century in many cases "specially to women"? YES, EVEN WITH A "monogamous" PARTNER. Have you read articles, pamphlets/seen documentaries about women that have contracted HIV or STD's? Guess by who? Their own "monogamous" partners. Yes, if you are in a solid, emotionally and spiritually "REAL MONOGAMOUS" relationship/marriage gor for it. And in even then! What are the statistics about pregnancies with condoms failing? about 98%. Yes the failure rate with the "natural contraception" method has lowered only because women are doing it "right" for the past few years. ei; Really learning their ovulation tperiod, body changes and practicing abstinence during those " ovulation" times, body temperature, discharges etc.. etc.. That is up to each individual. However, safe safe could never be trade with anything specially for newly sexually active individuals such as teenagers.

So how about you begin to Educate yourself and then YOU CAN GIVE INTELLIGENT ADVISE? Your attitude of "Enjoy yourself" is the silliest thing I've heard when it comes to safe~responsible sex. To all of those that read this: Please please protect yourselves NO MATTER WHAT. If YOU don't' take care of yourself who else will?

For the original post: Yes there is sperm in Pre-cum and many women have gotten pregnant that way. And I am not going to repeat what some members have advised wisely. Just read them! Your best bet hun is to do the right thing and enjoy life safely! I agree with other posts about the presence of sperm in Pre-cum. Yes, the chances are low, but who wants to take a chance unless they are planning on having a baby? Think about it!!!!!

Bottom line, practice lots of sex if so you wish, BUT SAFE ONE and at an age that you know CAN FACE THE MUSIC should anything go wrong such as "getting pregnant" .

Good luck all!

Be safe

Witty_Too31



Last edited by WittyToo31 on 03/14/07 - 22:06; edited 1 time in total

Hello Everyone,

This post is for Guest's reply: ARE YOU KIDDING ME? (In your own words: "And i did that for 4 years with my ex too and never a scare !!! thats 6 years of the pull out method !!! No scare!!! No baby!!! No worries!!! ") How irresponsible and ignorant are you? I respect your decisions because well...you are entitled to them, and wouldn't have said anything if you posted that nonsense for the world to read in a "just because forum/blog" . HOWEVER, you are giving advise to someone that obviously needs "Real advise" in a respectable forum and reputable website. What if this couple doesn't get as "lucky as you" and get pregnant??? or worse yet practice that with a new partner that is infected? You can't give advise to someone thinking just of YOU! That's not even the point here!

Additionally, do you even love yourself? How can you have unprotected sex at this time and age where STD's are ONE of the greatest threats and death causals of the century in many cases "specially to women"? YES, EVEN WITH A "monogamous" PARTNER. Have you read articles, pamphlets/seen documentaries about women that have contracted HIV or STD's? Guess by who? Their own "monogamous" partners. Yes, if you are in a solid, emotionally and spiritually "REAL MONOGAMOUS" relationship/marriage gor for it. And in even then! What are the statistics about pregnancies with condoms failing? about 98%. Yes the failure rate has lowered only becase women are doing it "right" as of a few years. ei; Really learning when her ovulation time, body changes and practicing abstinence during those " ovulation" times, body temperature, discharges etc.. etc.. That is up to each individual. However, safe safe could never be trade with anything specially for newly sexually active individuals such as teenagers.

So how about you begin to Educate yourself and then YOU CAN GIVE INTELLIGENT ADVISE? Your attitude of "Enjoy yourself" is the silliest thing I've heard when it comes to safe~responsible sex. To all of those that read this: Please please protect yourselves NO MATTER WHAT. If YOU don't' take care of yourself who else will?

For the original post: Yes there is sperm in Pre-cum and many women have gotten pregnant that way. And I am not going to repeat what some members have advised wisely. Just read them! Your best bet hun is to do the right thing and enjoy life safely! I agree with other posts about the presence of sperm in Pre-cum. Yes, the chances are low, but who wants to take a chance unless they are planning on having a baby? Think about it!!!!!

Bottom line, practice lots of sex if so you wish, BUT SAFE ONE and at an age that you know CAN FACE THE MUSIC should anything go wrong such as "getting pregnant" .

Good luck all!

Be safe

Witty_Too31