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anoymous
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 Posted: 01/31/08 - 02:49 Post subject: I can't have orgasms through sex and don't know if i can hav |
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| Hi i'm a 22 year old girl and have been with a few partners and had sexual intercourse and always used the withdraw method. I never got pregaunt and have been checked. I am now on the contraception pill. My questions is that i have never had an orgasm through sex. I can orally but when its comes to sexual intercourse i never feel aroused enough and don't known how to orgasm. I'm abit worried that i've damaged myself by not using protection in the past. Also, i never got pregaunt through withdrawal method though i know there is a risk anyone could, does this mean i can't have children? hope i'm making sense. Can you help? Thank you! |
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| Posted: 01/31/08 - 15:24 Post subject: |
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Well pulling out does decrease the risk of pregnancy, and there are only a few days during your cycle that you can become pregnant. So most likely you were lucky on both counts. I would say there is nothing wrong with your reproductive system, but you really should use protection not only for decreased risk of pregnancy but also it lowers your risk of STDs. As for arousal problems, a female may be better at explaining that to you.  |
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agent10ve
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| Posted: 01/31/08 - 16:13 Post subject: Re: I can't have orgasms through sex and don't know if i can |
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| anoymous wrote: | | Hi i'm a 22 year old girl and have been with a few partners and had sexual intercourse and always used the withdraw method. I never got pregaunt and have been checked. I am now on the contraception pill. My questions is that i have never had an orgasm through sex. I can orally but when its comes to sexual intercourse i never feel aroused enough and don't known how to orgasm. I'm abit worried that i've damaged myself by not using protection in the past. Also, i never got pregaunt through withdrawal method though i know there is a risk anyone could, does this mean i can't have children? hope i'm making sense. Can you help? Thank you! |
First, there is no withdraw 'method'... many woman have become pregnant thinking this prevents pregnancy. There is still a chance you can become pregnant through precum, or if he 'forgets' to pull out accidentally before coming. You have been lucky. To me it sounds like the problem is you aren't getting enough clit stimulation. Most woman cannot reach oragsm without lots of clit stimulation. When you are getting oral sex, likely most (if not all) of the stimulation is on your clit. Try some new positions that allow your clit to rub up against him as you have sex (you on top is good for that)... Either that or you/him could rub your clit during sex. Just keep trying new things. And I'm glad you're on the pill now!
I really don't think theres anything wrong with your system, you *should* have no problem having kids when you want to. |
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| Posted: 02/07/08 - 08:37 Post subject: STDs |
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Thank you for your advice its really helped me.
I have a question about STDs how would you know if you had one would there be signs and symtoms or can you have one and not know about it? |
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| Posted: 04/27/08 - 16:30 Post subject: |
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| thank you very much! |
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