I dont want to get pregnant! IM 16 years old!! PLEASE REPLY!

jasmineblue · Newbie Joined: 01 Jul 2006 Posts: 21

me and my boyfriend are both only 16 years old and decided NOT to have a real sex, today he came to my house and we were messing around, he was rubbing his penis around my genitle area and i'm scared of the clear-liquid on his penis (pre-cum) might come in to my virgina and get me pregnant. We are both virgins and he has never cum before. (the most he had was probably the clear-liquid on head of his penis) And the night after this happened i began the lst day of ovulation. IM SO SCARED! Please help me!! Will i get pregnant from this??!! Please answer! Thanks!

helpisontheway · Guest

Hi!

Precum (pre-ejaculatory fluid) is a clear fluid which is the males natural lubricant, its released when he is aroused to clear the way inside the penis for semen to travel through and neutralize the acids of any residual urine.

It can contain sperm IF there are any left in the penis which the passing precum picked up. there would be sperm left in the penis from an old ejaculation, however, if your boyfreind had urinated since the last time he came, the urine would wash away these loose sperm, and the precum would be harmless.

there have been small studies conducted finding NO sperm in precum at all. Precum is made in the cowpers glands and prostate and semen is made in the testes. they are separate. sperm in precum comes from being picked up in the urethra.

basically, the sperm count in precum is VERY VERY LOW. if your boyfreind urinated since the last time he came, there is a possibilty there were no sperm in the precum at all.

theoretically, it IS possible to conceive from precum being spilt on the vulva without penetration, however this is rare, personally i have never heard of it happening in my city.

to get pregnant:
there would have to be sperm in the precum,
and you would have to be close to ovulation, or have ovulated.

(ovulation is when the egg is released to be fertalised. this happens about 14 days before your period starts. so if this occured less than a week after your period you are less fertile than if you are exposed to sperm nearer to ovulation time. Sperm can live inside your vagina for up to 7 days, the further away from ovulation this event occured the less fertile you are and the safer you are!

Look, I am rambling now,

from what you wrote, the chances of pregnancy are very low. so relax. and be safer next time! Smile

tookoolforevenyou · Guest

hello dont worry about i was the same way when i was 16 there is no worrys k? i am tring to think of something insightful to say i think waiting for sex is an awesome decision i wish i had your strength when i was your age any ways dont worry about getting pregnant by pre ejaculation unless he just got off and didnt pee but most guys pee after sex and dont be afraid to talk to him about k? thats the best thing k ? well you need anything else just give me a holler tookoolforevenyou@yahoo.com

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

YOU can also get birth control from planned parenthood, or any doctor, without parental consent.

PP offers free and low cost services for teens =)

mbrm100 · Newbie Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 9

Okay so my boyfriend and I always have sex, but always use a condom.
The last time we had sex was on a Friday, and then i came to his house Sunday and we had unprotected sex for the first time, i know he had gotten precum in me but right before he came he pulled it out , but we both think a little of it came in me. Should i be worried? And is there a chance of me being pregnant? Please Help me on this, I really would like to know just to be sure, and i have seen some incredible answers to people who are worried just like i am, so help please?!

mbrm100 · Newbie Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 9

Okay so my boyfriend and I have sex all the time.
But always with a condom. The last time I was at his house which was Friday and we had sex then. And then I came to his house Sunday and we did again but since everything happened so fast this time we didn't use a condom and I know there was precum going in me, but right before he came he pulled it out, but just a little still got inside of me. Should I be worried? Is there a chance I am pregnant? I have looked at a lot of the answers people have given other people like me, and it's incredible and so useful, so could i have some help as well now..please?

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

You should not have unprotected sex unless you use birth control.

A guy can pull out, but semen can still leak into your vagina. It only takes one sperm cell to fertilize an egg.

If you are a teen, there is free and reduced cost birth control out there for you.

You should consider taking the morning after pill, you can take it up to 5 days after unprotected sex.

mbrm100 · Newbie Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 9

Well yes, i could understand that.
But I have no way of getting birth control right now.
What we did was a one time thing, i know it wont happen again, and right now I am in the process of getting the pill. I just read that if he use's the bathroom after having sex last (which was Friday) Then the precum coming out the next time (which would be Sunday) It would be old. So i wasn't worried about that really. But thanks for your help. Since i did have sex Sunday (yesterday) when would be the best time to take a pregnancy test? The store kind obviously.

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

You can take a pregnancy test about 12-14 days after sex, that would be when it is accurate.

The whole 'using the bathroom' thing is often stated, but a myth.

mbrm100 · Newbie Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 9

What would be the cheapest birth control pill?
And where is there a website I could look at to read about it and where to get this?

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