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 Posted: 06/27/07 - 21:00 Post subject: I flex my legs when I masturbate. |
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| When I masturbate I have difficulty coming without flexing my lower body, making my entire body stiff/ rigid. Is it something wrong or just in my head? |
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| Posted: 06/28/07 - 14:01 Post subject: |
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| I do the same thing... I don't know why but it feels much better that way... Even when I am having sex with my husband I flex my lower body. It's just how your body works. |
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| Posted: 06/28/07 - 21:57 Post subject: |
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| The only way I can truly have a strong orgasm is if my lower body is flexed, and completely straight. It's hard during sex sometimes, cause when I tense up it's harder for my boyfriend to continue thrusting. |
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| Posted: 06/28/07 - 22:10 Post subject: |
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| then if the only way to have an orgasm is to have you lower body tense, then when you are masterbating try to lay on your back with you knees at a 90 degree angle, about the position you would be in... Try to work on making your body tense in that postion. Someone told me that once and it didn't happen the first time but it does work. this way when you are with your bf you don't have to fake it.. |
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| Posted: 06/28/07 - 22:16 Post subject: |
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I am working on that actually. Haha. I am trying to train myself to be able to orgasm in different positions, not necessarily on my back with my legs straight. I am getting better in a few positions, but when I am "on my own" I will definitely try doing it with my legs 90 degrees.
Oh, and I never fake it anyway. haha. I don't believe in faking it. If he can't get me off, I get myself off while we're having sex. He likes it anyway 
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| Posted: 07/21/08 - 18:34 Post subject: |
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| senorscott wrote: | | I am a male and I have this problem. I have tried to have sex in different positions, but I still have to stiffen my body. I have never been able to orgasm during sex because of this. I really need a cure for this or else I'm doomed to a life of celibacy. |
Finally!! I'm not the only guy who has this, when I'm masterbating I cant cum unless i tense my legs, I've had 4 sexual partners and I hav'nt been able to come with a single one of them because I havnt been able to tense my legs like I do when I masterbate, this is such an agony for me and my previous partners as its frustrating as hell. Please oh please!!! somone help us! |
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| Posted: 07/23/08 - 16:46 Post subject: |
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I don't understand why this is a problem.
Is there no way to keep your legs tense or to use them while thrusting?
I have always found that while on top, I'm constantly tensing my long leg muscles and find that sex is better when I excercize the long muscles of my legs.
Is this what you're talking about? |
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| Posted: 08/23/08 - 17:29 Post subject: |
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yeah i cant cum unless my legs are completely stiff, i really wanna fix this problem because when i have sex i wont be able to cum or it will be really uncomfortable for the girl....
can someone tell me ways to get the feeling as if my legs are stiff when they arent? need tips... |
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| Posted: 08/25/08 - 17:26 Post subject: |
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Welll.... if you're not turned off by it, there's always the ol' light bondage of having your legs tied down... or at least having your partner kneel on them.
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| Posted: 08/31/08 - 16:38 Post subject: hope this helps |
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| Guest wrote: | | senorscott wrote: | | I am a male and I have this problem. I have tried to have sex in different positions, but I still have to stiffen my body. I have never been able to orgasm during sex because of this. I really need a cure for this or else I'm doomed to a life of celibacy. |
Finally!! I'm not the only guy who has this, when I'm masterbating I cant cum unless i tense my legs, I've had 4 sexual partners and I hav'nt been able to come with a single one of them because I havnt been able to tense my legs like I do when I masterbate, this is such an agony for me and my previous partners as its frustrating as hell. Please oh please!!! somone help us! |
Just learn to cum without tensing them. I thought that i couldnt cum unless my legs were tensed but i had actually never tried masturbating without my legs tensed. Just lube yourself up well and concentrate on not tensing your legs. It may take you a while but keep at it cos after the first time i was able to cum without tensing it almost becomes second nature. Good luck  |
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