I had a guy purposely leave a condom inside of me after sex.

MissK · Guest

okay im 18 and i had sex for the first time yesterday..it was a horrible mistake because our judgements were compromised..i told him that it was my first time because i started to react with pain when he started..he got a little rough but i never told him to stop...he told me he never got off and the guy (refraining from calling him a bad name) left the condom inside of me on purpose...we had sex at probably 4 in the morning and at 3 in the afternoon i went home to find it after i had gone to the bathroom..and now i have a horrible stomach ache and of course bleeding but i figure the bleeding is normal. i want to know if having that condom inside of me could be causing my stomach pain...it feels like im having cramps..im supposed to have my period this upcoming weekend..i was also wondering if having rough sex could make your period come earlier and if all this pain is just pms or if its sumthin more...im really worried because this was my first time and im a worrier like that...i just don't understand why a guy would do that..im just at a loss for words and im really scared the guy told me he didn't get off and the condom you could tell had nothing in it but im still really scared .. i don't wanna get pregnant... i hope i can get a little advice if any to calm my mind...i never thought i would be anticipating the arrival of my period but i sure am now...thanks ...

crzyfl · Veteran Joined: 07 Apr 2006 Posts: 1168

It is normal to have a bit of cramping after first time sex, and your period may come a bit early. It is nasty that the condom came off and he didn't tell you. You should probably go to a sexual health clinic and get tested as there is a possibility of STI's.

I had a guy purposely leave a condom inside of me after sex.

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