I had sex for the first time and paranoid about pregnancy!!!

ams86pt · Newbie Joined: 24 Jan 2007 Posts: 3

I had sex for the first time in October and I am worried about pregnancy. I have taken pregnancy tests and all are neg and I have also had a regular period. But like the idiot that I am I looked up all kinds of things on the internet and found that you can be pregnant with no symptoms and neg results and also with a regular blood discharge. I have noticed that my stomach has gotten a little pudgier. I dont know if I am just being paranoid or I am just getting fat. please help me!!!

helpisontheway · Veteran Joined: 01 Jul 2006 Posts: 762 Location: England

if you were protected when you had sex then you should be fine. A false negative test at 3 months is so incredibly rare.. plus your cycle has come on time each month, had no side effects... I seriously doubt you could be pregnant! come on now, look at the facts rationally.

Perhaps you would feel more at ease with your sex life if you went on the pill?? Using the pill and condoms together is very safe sex indeed! and would make you so much more comfortable, being a worrier like yourself: it did wonders for me!!!

To be honest, (and I dont want to offend any people here)
I think the kinds of people that post these things, The people whose freinds of freinds report no signs: are probably in denial, or maybe even naive, the sheer physical strain of playing host to an unborn child is so much that its hard to beleive people can't even notice it. unless they truly beleive in their minds they weren't pregnant... but you are aware, you are looking for all the signs and symptoms, its hard to think that you could miss it! you have to trust in yourself.

ams86pt · Newbie Joined: 24 Jan 2007 Posts: 3

Thanks!! I was just worrying too much and wanted some other opinions. So thank you I really appreciate it

I had sex for the first time and paranoid about pregnancy!!!

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