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Rose21
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 Posted: 05/22/08 - 01:32 Post subject: I have a question about my boyfriend! And I need a solution. |
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Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life and the sex is always great, amazing when it's spontantious and unexpected.
He was a virgin before he met me, so he's new to it, but I've just had sex with my previous bf before him and he can satisfy me much more. Even though the other guy had slept with around 15 plus girls.
The problem is, today the sex was amazing it started out great. I'm on the depo-vera b-control, but even though I'm protected I still make him pull out. We had been going for around 15-20 minutes then had to pull out. He usualy has no trouble getting hard afterwards, but this time he couldnt! I dont understand what the deal was. This happened once before. He said he needed rest. But I hadnt finished and was getting very frustrated and pouty. It hurt that I couldn't.
The depo shot has made me very very moody, but I was just so frustrated and upset that I was crying. If I can't be satisfied in bed, then its hard to be happy otherwise. Hopefuly this was just a fluke. It happened just once before, and we came back to it like a hr or two later and it was fine.
But what can I do to fix this? |
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HelpTheWorrier
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Hello there Rose,
This could simply be down to the fact that perhaps you've been having a lot of sex with him recently (Or I'm not pointing any fingers, maybe he's been masturbating prior to sex).
Having sex several times a day, every day, or even once a day, the quality is bound to slope downwards over time, but if he's new to it, maybe give him a rest like he said.
I personally would not keep talking about what happened, or say anything if you have not yet already, men are very sensitive about this sort of thing and if they have built-up negative emotions about you then they can lose an erection like turning off a light.
Sorry I cannot be of much more help, but there isn't much else I can say.
HelpTheWorrier
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steveO
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| Posted: 05/28/08 - 08:38 Post subject: My 2 cents |
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I can tell you from a guys point of view that I HATE, pulling out. It can put a hault on things very quickly. It is a giant slap in the face, that you know is coming ( no pun intended ) It is also true of oral sex.
I know, that when my girlfriend use to make me pull out ( both intercourse and oral ), most of the times, things failed. And on the rare occasion it did go, it was far inferior in quality. I guess part of it is the man knowing his women " wants it " and his providing of it.
The only times it has been successful is when she has made me feel she really does want it somewhere else. A different level of excitement. But to be having sex and then just need to stop and pull out is a mojor turn off. If you still want him to pull out, changing it around and don't demand that he pull out, but convince him that you would like to experience his orgasm another way.
Just my thoughts |
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