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PostPosted: 12/04/06 - 01:46    Post subject: I have seen it, and I am concerned! Vote now! Reply with quote

I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 25. I've seen his penis when it is erected, and I'm a little concerned. We have not had sex, but I'm worried that he's not going to fit because he's HUGE. Literally. I would say that he's at least two inches in diameter, not to mention at least 8 inches long. I'm a virgin (however I do not have a hymen), and I just don't know how this is going to work... anyone out there have any words of comfort... or possibly bad news? Please help me know what to expect when I have sex with him for the first time. Thanks.

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PostPosted: 12/04/06 - 16:23    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

You should go very slow, make you feel comfortable, not push or insert his penis all the way.

First times suck anyway...Maybe you should do a bit of foreplaying before actual penetration took place and you should make sure there is enough lubrication, either your natural that shows upon excitement or you should get some water-based lube to make things more comfortable.

You should not overdo it with lube. Take it slow and enjoy! Good luck!
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PostPosted: 12/05/06 - 02:55    Post subject: sex with a banana... kiiiidding Vote now! Reply with quote

Okay- now for a more detailed question: Is it possible that he won't fit? This is humiliating... but I was so worried that he wouldn't fit that I tried putting plastic wrap around a banana, putting lotion on it, and fitting it into my vagina. It didn't work. I tried, but couldn't get the darn thing in there. The sad part about this experiment is that the banana is the same size, if not smaller, than my boyfriend's penis is in diameter. Now... people have said, "Well a baby can fit through it--" but seriously. Having a baby HURTS. Will sex with this man ever be pleasant for me, or will it just ridiculously hurt the first couple of times that we have sex?
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PostPosted: 12/05/06 - 05:37    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

I can't say....you won't know until you try. It may hurt at first but get used to it later.
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