I lost my virginity and is scared of being pegnat

lizzy8 · Newbie Joined: 12 Jun 2006 Posts: 6

On wensday i lost my virginity. We used protection he wore a condem. He even pulled out with the condem on before he came. But the next to days my breast were soar and i didnt want to eat. I'm i pregnat? My friend says it all in my head and that is what is making me "feel" these symptoms.Can you help? I am really scared.

peachybum · Posted: 06/12/06 - 19:17 Post subject: losing your virginity

Dear Lizzzy8 , I hope losing your virginity was a lovely experience for you. Good on you both for being sensible and using a condom, that was very a smart thing to do, Now seeing you said he wore a condom and pulled out as well, l would say their is no way you could be pregnant Exclamation

regarding having sore breasts and not feeling hungry, l think that maybe the next day you were worried about the fact that you had had sex, and this is just worry, thats all
Now if you have had sex once, you will obviously have sex again in the future, make sure that you have condoms with you as well, for protection against STDs and maybe look into getting some contraception.. Try not to worry to much l would say you will be fine Very Happy

lizzy8 · Newbie Joined: 12 Jun 2006 Posts: 6

Ok so it been a week since i did it and thanks for making me feel a little better. The soreness has gone away and i have been eating again. BUT there is a pain in my lower stomach. Is this normal? It doesnt hurt like oh my god but it also has a sore feeling. espeacially with sudent movements. Also i have irregular periods the last one i had was in april and the one before that was in august of 2005. Is it true that it makes it even more impossible to be pregnat? Im sorry for sounding so paranoid but i really cant have a baby and i never herd of anyone else going through these werid feelings after they did it. Please let me know i would greatly apperciate the help

Lovelesstfs · Newbie Joined: 08 Jun 2006 Posts: 35

Lizzy - if you are really that worried about being pregnant you should take steps to minimize it - such as morning after pill etc. Have a chat to your doc, a specialist or anybody at a family help centre (or anyone who's more knowledgable than I lol). I hope your first time was great too Smile

lizzy8 · Newbie Joined: 12 Jun 2006 Posts: 6

Ok its lil old paranoid me again. Yesterday i started bleeding alot and has continued till today. I had cramps all wensday and or most of the day yesterday. It is very heavy. I'm hoping its a period but have never experienced it like this, espeacially having them so close together since im so irregular, a friend said it maybe implanation bleeding? I really doubt so but could someone tell me if it sound like it. Again we were very careful and used protection. But i dont know.

Lovelesstfs · Newbie Joined: 08 Jun 2006 Posts: 35

Those sound like the symptoms of a pretty extreme period to me; nothign you should be worreid about. Have you thought of going on the pill or other medication to stabilise your periods if they are irregular?

lizzy8 · Newbie Joined: 12 Jun 2006 Posts: 6

Ok the next day that i last posted something here i started my period but it was very heavy. I am still a little worried about being pregnat becuase lately i havnt been using the restrrom alot , though i have her when ur pregnat u indeed use it alot. Also i have been feeling like cramp like feelings in my lower stomach. It more like an icthy feeling through the inside at times. and i still havnt been very hungry mostly thirsty and some times i feel nausea but dont actually through up. Im stll thinking its my nerves, since i did have a period. Which is actually werider becuase i usually dnt have them that close being really irruegular and all. Well thanks for listening again

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