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regretful
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 Posted: 08/31/06 - 11:07 Post subject: I lost my virginity can anyone help me? |
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Hi,
I really would like someone to help me. Im in complete depression and I dont know how to overcome. I lost my virginity to someone i loved very much, and I thought that we were going to spend the rest of our life together. In the culture that im from loosing my virginity is a major issue. He left me and didnt think twice about the state he left me in.
I regret it will all my heart, i tried to contact him to help me overcome but he didnt want anything to do with me.
Im really sorry for my innocent questions but i really do not know the answers to them. I was wondering if if my vaginal hole will ever go back to the way it was before i had sex with him. The men in our culture find it important that a girl bleeds during her first time. If i ever get married one day, will the man im sleeping with know that i am no longer a virgin just by having sex with me?
Please someone help me =( I really need some answers and im very lost.
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regretful
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| Posted: 08/31/06 - 14:32 Post subject: |
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| plz anybody i have no one to turn to |
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kadeyy
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| Posted: 08/31/06 - 15:02 Post subject: Re: I lost my virginity can anyone help me? |
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| regretful wrote: | Hi,
I really would like someone to help me. Im in complete depression and I do |
I'm a guy so I may not be able to tell you I understand exactly how you feel. So I may be considered too frank here. Please don't mind.
I don't know which continent you are from but you are surely not from Europe, America or Africa. I may be wrong but I believe over 90% of women from these places and possibly from all other places lost their virginity at one point or the other before marriage. My point is that you have not done anything wrong if the saying "the majority is right" is anything to go by.
You gave yourself away in love, you were betrayed. The fault is not yours. You are not loose, you are not cheap and from your naration, you have a strong sense of moralty. May be too strong for my liking. 
So pick yourself up from your depression. Forget about the bad guy. Obviously he doesn't deserve you. Meet a decent man and be open to him about your experience. You 'll be happily married and churning out kids in no time. And if you feel re-virgination is the option for you, see a doctor. |
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geohina
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| Posted: 10/22/06 - 06:41 Post subject: |
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There is no way to get back your virginity except hymenoplasty , but still there is some tips using that u can hide this thing from your husband in future.
You can email me at ***********
No doubt u have lost your virginity but now don't lose the chance to get the tips from me.
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sunandita
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| Posted: 01/21/07 - 14:07 Post subject: Re: I lost my virginity can anyone help me? |
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| regretful wrote: | Hi,
I really would like someone to help me. Im in complete depression and I dont know how to overcome. I lost my virginity to someone i loved very much, and I thought that we were going to spend the rest of our life together. In the culture that im from loosing my virginity is a major issue. He left me and didnt think twice about the state he left me in.
I regret it will all my heart, i tried to contact him to help me overcome but he didnt want anything to do with me.
Im really sorry for my innocent questions but i really do not know the answers to them. I was wondering if if my vaginal hole will ever go back to the way it was before i had sex with him. The men in our culture find it important that a girl bleeds during her first time. If i ever get married one day, will the man im sleeping with know that i am no longer a virgin just by having sex with me?
Please someone help me =( I really need some answers and im very lost.
Thanks so much |
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helpisontheway
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| Posted: 01/21/07 - 14:19 Post subject: |
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| But not all women bleed when they loose their virginity, what happens to them? do they get condemned or disowned when they have done nothing wrong? |
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| Posted: 07/16/08 - 16:42 Post subject: |
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| no your vagina will not return to how it looked before you had sex. some time when women have sex they dont bleed at all. so i dont think u have to worry about that or you can re-virginize yourself at a church |
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| Posted: 07/17/08 - 21:56 Post subject: |
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If you bled when you lost your virginity chances are you probably
wont bleed again but if you dont have sex again for a year or more
you will be so tight you both will think you're a virgin. If you dont bleed on
your wedding night just act as surprised as he acts, follow his lead. |
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