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 Posted: 01/02/07 - 14:21 Post subject: I'm 14, and want an abortion |
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| I think I'm pregnant.Can I get an abortion without my mother knowing at 14? |
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njkw06
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| Posted: 03/27/07 - 14:07 Post subject: Hi |
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| Yes you can by going to your local planned parenthood. Although you should consider all your options. |
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| Posted: 04/03/07 - 15:49 Post subject: |
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| Why are you even pregnant at 14???!!! |
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| Posted: 06/25/07 - 16:16 Post subject: |
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| ok for one don't yell at her New York....ok i'm 15 and 12 weeks pregnant i'm happy with the pregnancy so far and my boyfriend is the one wanting to keep it i was thinking more about an adoption more than a abortion... i might have to have on because of a medical problem with the baby.... but i would not get one if you just don't want it because you are young....if you want more help outside of this website...i have a websit i go to for my pregnancy.... it is **edited by moderator ** web addresses not allowed** there is a spot for 12-23 aged mothers i'm there and they help me with any of my problems..... so just remember the baby in you maybe unborn but it is still alive.... mine already has toes and and brain waves....we also heard it moving and its heart beat...and that was at 9 weeks so please think hard before you go through with the abortion |
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| Posted: 06/27/07 - 02:14 Post subject: |
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| i was pregnant at 15 years old and i thought i was making the right choice then to have an abortion but now iam 18yrs old and i still regeret it too this day yes you are very young and i dont know your situation and iam not here to judge or try to change your mind iam just saying make sure its what you really want before you make the decision it would be hard of course because your so young but just think about it becuase you will have to live with it for the rest of your life its not something that just goes away . . . |
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| Posted: 02/09/08 - 14:06 Post subject: |
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| MMMM I DONT THINK U SHOULD GET AN ABORTION I HADD MINE WHEN I WAS UR AGE TOO DAMMM I REGRET IM 19 AND I STILL REMEMBER THAT DAY AND NOW I DONT EVEN KNOW IF I CAN HAVE BABIES... I BEEN TRYIN TO GET PREGNANT BUT I CANT SO JUST THINK ABOUT IT AND I JUZT WANNA LET YOU KNOW THAT AN ABORTION ITS NOT EASY IS NOT JUST GETTIN RID OF THAT BABY... THERE ARE CONSECUENSES THAT YOU MIGHT REGRET LATER ON .... BUT IS YOUR CHOICE BABY ... GOOD LUCK WITH THAT ONE |
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| Posted: 02/15/08 - 19:32 Post subject: |
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Your of course have a choice, only you can make.
What do you think your moms reaction would be. At age 14, I am sure you have many that would support your abortion decision. Do you feel like you have anyone to support you if you chose to carry the baby?
There are ways, like one person mentioned, for your mom not to know. But what is your relationship with your mom like? How would such a secret affect your relationship with her?
Whether you have an abortion, or keep your baby, both are forever. That is what you need to consider. That and do you feel like you have a choice? (or no choice at all)
Consider telling your mom. I don't know what your relationship with her is like, of course, but it could open your options.
I'm here if you need to talk |
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| Posted: 03/06/08 - 15:29 Post subject: abortion |
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Dear Pregnant 14 year old,
I am so sorry that you are pregnant. I know that you feel your mother will kill you. However, I know that she will not. In fact, after she gets over the initial shock she will start to help you through the process. She will most likely, choose life for this baby. You will be so happy in the long run that you made the right decision for this baby. I have been married for many years and have no children. They are so hard to come by. I only wish you knew how many parents would love to adopt your baby. You have been give a great gift and oneday you will know that the baby growing inside you will love you for letting it have a chance at a full life. Please do not get an abortion. Your mother really will care......after "she feels like killing you" she may even help you. I promise! I know if I had gotten pregnant at 14 my mom would have made me get an abortion. So, it really would have been her fault. I know so many of my friends that got pregnant at a youg age and chose to get an abortion. They are now having serious reprecussions from not being able to get pregnant to female problems as a result of the abortion proceedure. Many of them wonder what their child would have been like........  Again, I really am so sorry that you are facing this in your life right now.
Here is a great big hug! I send my love to you and my prayers for you and your mother and the precious child growing in your tummy! |
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| Posted: 03/07/08 - 01:51 Post subject: |
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I am a medical professional, and I have had 3 abortions.
ABORTION does not affect future fertility or cause problems, UNLESS you have complications, which is rare.
Miscarriage D&C and abortion are THE SAME EXACT THING..
YET you do not hear people telling these women that they are messing up their body. They are told to "try again, it will be okay, you can do it" |
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