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Thatonekid14
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 Posted: 04/10/07 - 05:01 Post subject: I'm 14 years old, I have a story of sort and I would really |
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Hi, I'm 14 years old.
When I first started masturbating around the age of 11, I used to be able to use..lotion and lubricants and last a decent amount of time.
For a long time, I started using none, so it was just..like using my non lubricated hand.
Then I tried going back to lotion, and I started ejaculating within the first minute.
At this point in time, my girlfriend had moved to florida, and I no longer saw her.
But when she was here, she would give me oral and I could last around 7-10 minutes.
She then came back a year later, and gave me oral again, and I didnt ejaculate from it, after she was trying for about 20 minutes.
A few days later, we had sex..and I ejaculated the first 2 minutes, then had sex a second time the next day and last about 3 minutes.
And now, I have a new girlfriend..and I don't think I am going to be having sex with her, because she wants to wait till marriage, so I don't have much to worry about..
But, everytime I masturbate now, with lubricant..
(in the shower) I can last around 7 minutes.
But if Im laying down on my bed or something I only last about 1 minute.
What could be the cause in that?
Also, do you think the one time my girlfriend gave me oral and I didnt ejaculate was because I was so comfortable around her at that point..it was kind of I could ejaculate when I wanted too?
And one last thing, for a while, I just started masturbating to get the sensation of an orgasm..I think I kinda screwed myself over, there. Because now I can only last.. 1-7 minutes, as read above.
If you could help me out a little on whether this is premature ejaculation, or if its my comfortabilty level with myself and other people I do sexual things with.
If you could please help me out.
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Thatonekid14
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| Posted: 04/12/07 - 19:53 Post subject: |
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| Anyone, please? |
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| Posted: 04/18/07 - 02:13 Post subject: |
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IfHopeDies
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| Posted: 04/21/07 - 00:58 Post subject: |
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i dont know how to help you but im in the same boat
if i masterbate in the shower, i can last up to 10 minutes
if i masturbate in my room w/o lube, i last 2-3 minutes
with lube, more often than not, under 1 minute
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Thatonekid14
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| Posted: 05/01/07 - 01:09 Post subject: |
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Its rather lame 
someone give us some help, please. |
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| Posted: 05/23/07 - 06:14 Post subject: |
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| 70 views. plz help |
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MattInChains
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| Posted: 05/25/07 - 13:00 Post subject: Advice |
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Think of something completely unrelated when you masturbate, and when you feel you're about to ejaculate prolong it by stopping for about 10-30 seconds and then continue, if you do that for as long as possible you might notice a difference.
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noggin
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| Posted: 06/08/07 - 04:24 Post subject: |
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Feeling bad for your lack of replies:( I'm a girl and I know from experience that guys always find it harder to ejaculate whilst in the shower, or I suppose just less easy in your case. But anyway, using lube makes you ejaculate quicker because it's more realistic to the natural sensation of penetration. So masturbating without lube therefore makes you last slightly longer.
Obviously I don't know the history between you and this girl, but you mentioned you were uncomfortable around her that time she gave you oral and you couldn't ejaculate. It's more than likely that this was because you weren't comfortable with her, whatever the situation was.
When you had sex with this girl, was it the first time you'd had sex? Or had you been without sex for a long time? It seems a bit strange that you couldn't ejaculate through oral but only a few days later it was quick ejacualtion through sex. I'm a little confused?
Hope a helped a bit so far anyway. |
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| Posted: 06/20/07 - 04:47 Post subject: I tink i know |
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| hey buddy first of all i dnt get how ur 14 and all this happened while ur 14 anyways that thing with u and ur gf havin oral and didnt ejaculate ...that is most likely because u already ejaculated earlier maybe from masterbation or maybe someother reason |
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| Posted: 06/20/07 - 10:52 Post subject: |
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i agree with the guest...14 is a bit of a young age to start having sex, but i never judge people.
like others have said before, with the oral, because you were uncomfortable you might not have been aroused enough to ejaculate.
I wouldn't worry about it too much, your 14 and you still have time to develope both mentaly and physicaly so you might grow out of ejaculating quickly. |
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