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 Posted: 05/28/07 - 11:28 Post subject: I'm 20 (Girl), never masterbated or had sex before, help? |
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| Ok... I'm kinda embarressed to even post this. I'm a 20 year old (girl), never had sex, never masterbated before, and I'm kinda scared to, but really want to. I have no idea what to do, or what to expect. I've been reading other topics but... most of the people on here are like 13-16 year olds asking about masturbation. I cant buy a sex toy, well I could but, I live in an apartment with my younger cousin (Also female) and I dont want her to find out and have her thinking badly of me. I tried watching porn but... it kinda grossed me out, hahaha, can anyone help me, PLEASE? |
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| Posted: 06/01/07 - 00:40 Post subject: |
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First - theres nothing wrong with you for being grossed out by porn. masterbation is about you making you feel good. No toys or porn needed.
I just get in bed, cover up, and explore myself, you'll know when it feels good better best. You dont need to have vaginal penitration either.
Sitting on your knees on bed with a couple pillow between your legs and a little finger/hand stimulation can give you the pressure and pleasur u need.
Hope you have a private bedroom.
Also dont feel bad or gross or ashamed for wanting self pleasure. many women masterbate and most men do too. |
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| Posted: 04/24/08 - 18:00 Post subject: |
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Okay so a really easy way to masturbate is with an electric tooth brush 
It might sound gross but as long as you don;t use it in your mouth its fine and your little cousin won't think anything of it is you just have it in a drawer or something |
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| Posted: 05/09/08 - 01:51 Post subject: |
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| if your living in a apartment with your younger cousin im going to asume thats shes probly near your age and chances are she probly masterbates as well so i doup shell think less of you. |
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| Posted: 05/09/08 - 19:22 Post subject: Never Masterbated...yet |
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4liner has given you great advice!
You might consider two other things about electric toothbrushes. First, if you have a unit that you share, and just attach your own brushes to, you might buy either a new one just for your private parts, and keep it someplace safe... or, you could buy a disposable one and keep it in your nightstand.
Most women will use the BACKSIDE of the brush...the smooth plastic head or the vibrating handle, for something less intense.
***** have sold a special smooth head for some brands of electric tooth brushes.
Not all women do masterbate, but you can bet that those that do are a lot more familiar with their needs and wants than their inexperienced sisters.
You might look up "Sex for One" by Betty Dotson also. It will help give tips.
Good luck.
**edited by moderator** |
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