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flapless
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| Guest wrote: | | Jesus....ok...I have large labia as well, but you all should know it IS IN FACT normal to have it. There is NO SUCH THING as a perfect vulva. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The trick is to be confident, even if you're unsure at first... make people believe you are completely comfortable with yourself and sooner or later you will actually be comfortable wit yourself and love yourself for what you are. I have a wonderful boyfriend. I'm still a virgin, and before him I was VERY scared of how guys would react to the way I look down there. But I acted like it was normal (BECAUSE IT IS) and he was fine with it. He's even ate me out with the lights on bright as the day is long. Just know you are beautiful the way you are, no matter what anyone says. |
Ok, but if you cannot accept it, or it causes you physical discomfort as mine did, then it is possible to have the surgery on the NHS. your GP needs to refer you to a Gynecological surgeon. It is a painful operation, but worth it. good luck |
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| Posted: 01/05/08 - 19:22 Post subject: Re: labia reduction |
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| Guest wrote: | | hi im sixteen and i have rather large labias (i think thats what they are called) i dont dare tell my mum and im too embarrsed to go to the docters. ive not had sex yet but i really want to! any one who knows what its like and if its worth it. please help me. x thank you x |
Your mum will probably already know. I appreciate the comment earlier on every flower is different.. but if the enlarged labia are causing you physical pain(rubbing on clothing, couldnt sit for long etc) then it is worth getting something done. The proceedure is called a labial reduction..and your GP can refer you on the NHS for the proceedure. Be warned it is VERY painful. |
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| Posted: 01/05/08 - 19:26 Post subject: Re: labie reduction surgery |
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| blondiebeck wrote: | hi...I had labia reduction surgery 10 days ago...I have never experienced so much pain in my life! things are easing now however I am really distressed about how things look. I had both sides trimmed however on one side he has trimmed labia all the way up...however on the other side he has cut my labia off the top completely...so under the clitorius i have a small amount of skin then i can see where its been cust away..he has then oulled skin over from the sideof where the labia was and stictched it down onto the missing labia!
can anyone help me?? I went to my gp who told me as its only been 10 days i need to wait another 10 days before she can look at it again and know how its going to heal... |
how well did you heal? |
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| Posted: 01/18/08 - 10:53 Post subject: I love my labia! |
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When I was 16 I realized one of my labias was larger than the other. I was horrified and very worried about it because I thought any guy I would ever be with would be horrified too! I thought about surgery but the thought of all that pain was enough to make me change my mind! Well, when I was finally with a guy, he NEVER noticed it! It still really bothered me to the point that I pointed it out to him but he said he thought I was BEAUTIFUL and he loved my labia! Since then in talking to people I found out that a lot of guys actually PREFER large labia because they think it's soooo sexy and feminine. My bf says it's a total turn on for him, one look is all it takes! A lot of guys are repulsed by small ones or lack of because to them it looks like the girl is not aroused. (sorry!) Also, I'm soooo glad I never had the surgery because I learned it removes a lot of the nerve endings that are there naturally for pleasure. Thank God since I looooovvveeee the pleasure!  You can also damage nerve endings permanently. I hope my experience helps someone |
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