I think somethings wrong with me mentally

teagremlin · Newbie Joined: 07 Jun 2007 Posts: 1

I have no problem masturbating and ejaculating but when it comes to a girl I cant seem to even feel good enough to ejaculate. like I was getting head for over 20min it didnt even feel that good and I couldnt seem to cum she even used her hand some cause I told her to and I tried doing it myself and i couldnt get myself to cum. this happened with my x gf also. am i just nervous or something or what? because its like i can get everything to wrok fine when im by myself but when im with someone else i cant. i'm a virgin and havent had sex so im not sure about that.. just foreplay. I am 18

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maybe you are gay? have you tried thinking about men?

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You could just be nervous. It took me forever to feel comfortable enough to have an orgasm in front of someone and I too could take care of myself just fine. It took time and I had to really relax and let everything go before I was finally able to orgasm even during sex. If you're fine by yourself, then it doesnt seem to be a physical problem. You should be fine when you're ready and be able to have fun. Smile

I think somethings wrong with me mentally

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