Posted: 04/23/08 - 17:55 Post subject: I want a baby
I need some advice. I had an abortion Oct 2007. Both my boyfriend and I truly regret it but are healing and moving on. I really want to start trying to have a baby now. He wants to wait until Nov of this year. I talk to him all the time and tell him how I feel but his answer is always wanting to wait until November. I am really trying to understand him but I cant. Every month that goes by, I get depressed. We are not doing anything to prevent pregnancy (pull out method) but neither one of us is that fertile to get pregnant off of pre-ejac...I hope some one can explain maybe his point of view to me and what I should do? I am tired of feeling this way. I am 24 going on 25 by the way.
It sounds obvious to me that your bf isn't ready yet, for reasons of his own. It takes two to make a baby, both willing. I suggest that you give him time for what ever reason and respect that.
Remember, he hasn't said "no" just wait till November. November isn't that far off.
I wouldn't keep badgering him about the whole baby thing either. Don't get him to the point where he may say he doesn't want one at all.
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