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 Posted: 06/15/07 - 00:55 Post subject: I want submissive, end up feeling guilty.. |
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| When it comes to having sex I am extremely aggressive. My temper seems to get the best of me. My gf will usually be going down on me or riding me when this happens. I get angry because she is taking too long with the bj or going to slow on top. I usually pick her up, throw her on the bed and continue quite violently. I often make her cry. Is there any thing I can do to calm myself while she is giving me head or running the show? Maybe she is not my type? Maybe she is not good enough? Are there females who enjoy a violent sexual realationship? |
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| Posted: 06/15/07 - 03:25 Post subject: |
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| Your relationship needs communication. It sounds like your girlfriend doesn't know what you like because you haven't told her. Making her cry and freaking her out or hurting her is not the solution. There is no reason for you to say shes not good enough, but she may not be your type. Talk to her about it and tell her what kinds of things you like and let her do the same. Maybe find some sort of compromise. If things dont work out maybe you need to find someone who enjoys the more aggressive type, there are sure some girls out there that do. |
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| Posted: 06/15/07 - 09:01 Post subject: |
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Different girls enjoy different things -- there are quite a few submissive girls out there who'd love such a violent f@#$^&*.
However, if your girlfriend isn't into it, I wouldn't recommend subjecting her to such things. There's a line between BDSM and abuse -- and that line is consent. |
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| Posted: 06/17/07 - 04:59 Post subject: |
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Wow.... Well, she seems to still be with you after several of these occasions, so either she likes it, is simply willing to put up with it, or is too scared of you to leave (hopefully not that). There's a difference between being aggressive and being violent. I'm aggressive and my gf loves it -> slap/squeeze her ass hard a lot, overall take control, but never make her cry.
You should tell her what you like and if she doesn't want to do it find someone else (for her sake if no other reason), she may just not be your type. I doubt it's b/c she's not good enough, although 'good enough' is different for each person. If you really love this girl and are hoping for a long/permanent relationship w/her, you might seek some prof. counseling.
There's no practical way I can think of to simply lower your temper, b/c any chill pills would probably effect your energy during sex. Also, if you're getting mad over a bj taking a long time your kinda screwed, it can be pretty damn hard to get a guy off with oral (according to my gf, who's willing to go for over 30min to make me cum from a bj).
Good luck. You better damn well be apologizing afterwards to her. |
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| Posted: 06/17/07 - 11:11 Post subject: |
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as they all said
talk to her before you do that anymore dude... there's line between a fun exciting dominated sexual partner and raping her....
ASK and if she doesn't like that kind of stuff, then no.. she is not your type.
-Ze Eric |
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