Im invisisble to my crush

RoNnii & ELLiiE · Newbie Joined: 17 Jun 2008 Posts: 1

soooooooo ... i've liked this guy for like 2 years.But i did something really stupid.I promised one of my bestfriends [who claims she luvs him] that i wouldn't talk 2 him any more his name is ***** and i kinda did stop.But now every time i try to talk to him all he does is look at her or walk away because of her.I can't even go to him for advice anymore ... but i don't wanna lose my best friend.How o i get him back without looking desperate or making it look like a battle.

bbfeet9 · Moderator Joined: 12 Mar 2008 Posts: 1345

Best friends are hard to get. Once you do get one, the two of you go thru lifes experiences together.
Your friend claims she loves him, are they a couple? If you two girls are such best friends then you should be able to talk to her about it, without her getting all upset.
What are this guys feelings towards her? Friendly? Loving? Close like a brother and sister? Do you think he has those kind of feelings for her?
Or does he just want to hang out and be friends?
Maybe your bff is trying to control his emotions and wishing that they could be a couple.
I would talk to him, just casual convo. Remind him how much you guys got along before and ask him what the problem is.
If there is no conection between these two, then there is no reason why he can't have a girl as a friend. And even if there is a thing there, who says an attached guy can't have another female as a friend?

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