Im pregnant and don't know what to do the Dad doesn't want t

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I've just found out that i am pregnant to my ex. We had a bit of fun after we split up bt now i've just found this out and i have told him but he wants me to have an abortion as he is moving to a different country to work at the end of year and i don't know what to do. I want the baby but dont want it to have no dad. And dont want to be on my own through it all. I know my family would be ther for me but its not the same. Please Help!

angel baby · Newbie Joined: 01 May 2006 Posts: 140 Location: Washington

Honey, You should do what your heart is telling you to do. You dont have to what your ex tells you to do. Its your body and your baby. It will be hard to raise a baby without the dad. But think of the little baby you will be able to raise and watch grow. If you know you will have the support of your family you dont need to have an abortion.. An abortion may cause you a lot of pain emotionally. I dont mean to preach to you but the way i see it God has a different path for you right now.. I think wont give you anything you cant handle.. Listen to your heart.. i'm here if you need someone to talk to. I will listen (read) and give you the best answer i can.. I personally dont have any experience with abortions, I did lose a baby in december it was the worst pain i ever felt.. and I have a beautiful 3 yr old daughter..

daybreak · Newbie Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 9

17 YEARS AGO, MY COUSIN HAD AN ABORTION BECAUSE SHE COULD NOT FIGHT FOR THE LOVE OF HER LIFE. HER LIFE WAS NEVER THE SAME EVERSINCE. IT'S BEEN A MONKEY AT HER BACK AND SHE TOLD ME THAT NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT SHE DOES NOT REGRET THE DREADFUL DAY WHEN SHE DECIDED TO LOSE THE BABY. GUILT STRICKEN AND SEEING PUNISHMENT AS HER ONLY WAY TO MOVE ON, SHE SWORE NEVER TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANY MAN AGAIN. NOW SHE IS 46 YEARS OLD, SINGLE, AND NO KID TO GROW OLD WITH.I HOPE THAT YOU WILL CONSIDER CAREFULLY ALL THE FACTORS, BECAUSE IF YOU ARE WEAK ENOUGH YOU MAY BE DOING SOMETHING THAT YOU WILL REGRET FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.

dawnh · Newbie Joined: 22 Jul 2007 Posts: 5

When I was 21 i became pregnant my boyfriend worked away alot and said he'd be back soon, at the time he was delayed getting back and I was financially incapable of providing for a baby at that time, I spent many hours with the midwife and doctors asking for advice what to do, there answers............... only you can make the decision, I decided to get a termination, and it was the worse thing I ever did, I still think of my baby and how old he / she would be today and what my baby would be doing now, my advice to you is think long and hard and talk to people about it, don't make any harsh decisions until you feel comfortable with your decision, you may not think so now, but you WILL live this decision for the rest of your life if it is the wrong one.

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i suggest if you can look after this child on your own, have it.

i have one daughter then went on to have a few abortions as my husband and i were always fighting. now i can't have any more children. i punished myself along with him.

my daughter is alone with no other siblings.

if you intend to have kids in the future, the chance of falling pregnant is one in a million and it may not happen again as i experienced

after an abortion the chances of having children also is reduced

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