Im so scared to do anal again it brings me to tears but my f

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Hello, im 16 years ld and i did anal with my boyfriend a while back and it realli hurt i was crying. my boyfriend wants it more and more but it really hurts me. Im scared he will leave me for someone who can handle it Crying or Very sad

Please i dont know what to do

beeef · Posted: 03/26/07 - 14:02 Post subject:

Dont do anny thing you dont want to do if he loves you he will understand. Wink

helpisontheway · Veteran Joined: 01 Jul 2006 Posts: 750 Location: England

If he loves you he wouldn't hurt you. DONT let him do ANYTHING you are not comfortable with.

rosemoonlight · Newbie Joined: 27 Mar 2007 Posts: 2

Darlin' if he loves you he wont force you into things that are painful for you.

Sit down and talk to him about it. If he really cares about you, he wont force you into anything.

pouts · Newbie Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 143

I was scared that would happen with my bf too, but finally i decided that if he cant accept the fact that i dont want to do it, then he really doesnt love me, and its not worth it.

thedoctorisin · Newbie Joined: 22 Mar 2007 Posts: 113

Screw talking to him. If he knows it hurts you and doesn't care, you're better off without him.

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Well you are 16 so chances are your not going to be together forever anyway. Some girls just can't do it. Tell him you will do it again if he lets you do him with a sex toy. Just to see if he likes it. Should solve your problem I would expect.

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mist4ub · Newbie Joined: 30 Dec 2007 Posts: 2

i had anal sex with my boyfriend and it was really painful doing it doggy style then we decide to try a new position ever since then i love it.. i suggest u find a comfortable position like lying on your back or side etc.. but if u really don't like it or if it is really painful for you then don't do it i am sure if he cares about you he will understand

goosengander · Newbie Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Posts: 1

a lot of girls find anal sex paiful the first few times we do it. it gets better the more you do it. one thing i did though was to practice with a carrot to start and worked up to a cucumber. i also bought a fake penis and practice. now that i am comfortable doing it my bf and i can try new things with it. i also learned from the experience that i am allow to be assurtive and in this case insurtive. i make my bf take it if he wants to give it. he resisted at first but a finger or two lead to his submission and now we both get the rewards. when the toy goes in him he gets bigger and harder and lasts long enough for me to cum. now we have his and her toys and he tells me he really understands why i made him go slow at first. when he cums it is like a bucket full. he doesnt wear a condom when he does me anally and when he ejackulates in my anus it feels so warm and i can feel it going deep inside. i know if i do it with a different guy in the future i am going to do him too or he wont go there. [/b]

Im so scared to do anal again it brings me to tears but my f

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