Information about threesomes

kadokmooz · Newbie Joined: 11 Mar 2007 Posts: 1

Hi,

I have been trying to look up on the internet information about what exactly to do during a threesome.

All the information I have found so far seems to be directed to a Male, who is getting a female to join him and his girlfriend.

I did find 1 article on a womens health site, but it pretty much said "dont do it - it will break up your relationship"

Does anyone here have any links or information as to what a bi curious girl should do, or know?

There is no "relationship" or jealousy issues in this situation, as the 3 of us are all single.

thanks

ButterflyGurl15 · Newbie Joined: 22 Jul 2007 Posts: 10

Well i had my frist threesome when i was just 14, yeah i know what you are thinking. It was me, my best friends step-brother and his girlfriend.
Well frist him and her had a qucikie, while i go horny masterbating, then me and his girlfriend started kissing and feeling one another, then me and her were on top of each other and her bf started eating me out and then i turned to him and give him a blow job, and then we had a quickie and the i eat his gf out and then we ended it by he doing me wiht a dildo and him masterbating to use doing, i thought i was kinda hot i was 14 and he was 17 and she was 16. We did it once more after that but this time it was hotter cause his partnets were home so we could get caught any min!

AllTheAnswers · Newbie Joined: 22 Jul 2007 Posts: 3

Will it be you and two other girls or you and a guy and girl?

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I read your posting and look myself for information on threesomes. I have been involved in a threesome relationship for 9 years wuth the same people and so it can work as long as you have good communication ,and the women both have bi-sexual attraction.Then it can be very fullfilling.Since you are all single then you can all grow together.Which is possible a good thing too.Hope i helped a little ! shana

ibemeintexas · Newbie Joined: 09 Jul 2008 Posts: 1

I've been with my husband for two years and I want to spice up things so I wanted to have a threesome. He told me that it didnt matter if he had one or not, but I want to just to try something different. Should I follow through with it or should I just forget about it? How do you know if it's the right person?

Kirk C · Moderator Joined: 28 Apr 2008 Posts: 940

Everything I have read and seen on the subject says that a 3-some is a tricky thing to manage. Someone always winds up getting hurt, or feeling jealous in the end.

Some couples/tripples can handle this and balance the relationships and feelings for longer term, but they never appear to be stable in younger people.

I note in an above example that a 17 year old boy was having sex with a 16 year old and 14 year old girls. I believe that's under the age of conscent in most states and could land him in jail, as soon as one or the other of the girls talks about it to anyone.

As for how you pick a 3rd person? Same way as you picked your first partner.... with risk, nervousness, and caution. What criteria did you use to pick your partner? Or did you? Was it convenience, access, or did they choose you?

I'd work on the main relationship. A third person is generally complicated.

xXCuriousXx · Newbie Joined: 31 Jul 2007 Posts: 81

I say talk to your gf or a girl that would be willing to do it but wait till you and her are REAL CLOSE so she wouldn't think your a pervert or something.

Me and my gf discussed this once about having a 3 some I'm up for it bcuz she likes L's (L's = lesbians) she doesn't know why it just turns her on then i said, " what if the other girl was all on top of me riding me and things" she said that she wouldn't want i anyone in her spot so she asked me the same question except she used a guy instead of a girl and i said the same thing she said... Couple of days ago out of nowhere she said she wants a 3 some with my bro or my friend (who is 16 along with me and my bro is 13) I told her i don't want to because we both disagreed before and i would rather do one on one.

PS: All depends on the girl and how close you and her are together some girls are more willing to do it with others but that doesn't mean if they say no forget it and go find another that's mean and horrible and kinda disrespects a girl because it shows all that you wanted was sex.....

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