Is My Girlfriend Really a Virgin?

cathrine · Silver Member Joined: 18 Jun 2001 Posts: 264

Hello. I'm 24 year old male and just recently I have met this beautiful and interesting girl which is 20 yrs old.
After month or two we started one great relationship and we have talked several times about sex and that kind of stuff. Like I said, she is 20 years old and told me that she has never had sex with anyone. Can you believe this- such a beautiful girl and still a virgin. It was very hard for me to believe that. I didn’t tell her that but I would like to know how to tell for sure that my girlfriend is a virgin. I really love her and I believe that this won’t change a thing but- I don’t like when I'm being lied to and I would like to find out truth!

ashlie · Silver Member Joined: 21 Oct 2000 Posts: 276

Hello, I'm also a man and I understand what you are thinking right now. I don’t know how to tell you this but the only way you could be sure is to take her to some gynecologist and let him determine is she or is she not a virgin- or does she still have her hymen or not!
Of course that you won’t do this because she would dump you the same moment. In sex- there are no rules.
If she is virgin, she should bleed during first intercourse, but she doesn’t have to. She should be in a lot of pain- but she doesn’t have to. There are no rules. So the only solution for you is to trust her on this. You see, what difference is it make if she even had sex with someone else before you, as long as she don’t carry some STD. To be honest with you- sex is much better with the woman she had sex before you. Good luck!

GanjRocker · Posted: 04/11/07 - 20:58 Post subject: NO

No one likes being lied to, man. But if you love her, then its worth it. So chill out and once she lets you hit it - then you'll know.

badAssJack · Newbie Joined: 29 Apr 2007 Posts: 28

well u may not ever get to know if she had sex b-fore but i would worry ull prob know if she did when she has sex with u because she will prob feel ok and relaxed and like yea have fun hehheheheheheh

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