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ImmortalOne
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The cost of an abortion is a concern, especially for those of limited income or young ages. Just because someone uses BC (Pills, Patches, IUD, Condoms, etc) does not always garauntee. I might not agree with abortion, it isn't for me, however it is someone else's life, not my own and I shouldn't be judging them for making choices they feel is right for them.
Sure, let's put Norplant in the arms of every woman, I think the 90's taught us how dangerous that form of BC was. |
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Wild Orchid
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| Posted: 03/10/07 - 15:13 Post subject: |
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| ImmortalOne wrote: | The cost of an abortion is a concern, especially for those of limited income or young ages. Just because someone uses BC (Pills, Patches, IUD, Condoms, etc) does not always garauntee. I might not agree with abortion, it isn't for me, however it is someone else's life, not my own and I shouldn't be judging them for making choices they feel is right for them.
Sure, let's put Norplant in the arms of every woman, I think the 90's taught us how dangerous that form of BC was. |
Its amusing that you want to be overly dramatic as apposed to realistic.
There are dozens of forms of BC and you do not have to reply on just ONE at any given time!!
Now tell me... how much does it cost to obstain from sexual intercourse?
How much does it cost to put a child up for adoption?
How much does it cost to be better educated before having sex?
When these are reasonable considerations a woman should be worrying about prior to engageing in sexual activity.... and mind you.. FREE!!
Yes, money is a very silly thing to list as a main concern. |
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Carifairy
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| Posted: 03/10/07 - 16:09 Post subject: |
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Wild Orchard-
I should have made a much mroe detailed posting...
I became pregnant on an IUD, and I still trust them and use one, BUT, it could happen again  I very well could become pregnant on an IUD again, it is not gauranteed that I am safe. I am also happily married, and abstinance is not for us.
I cannot use hormonal BC methods at all, so I am left with only so many options.
MANY doctors will not give IUD's to women that have never had kids, even though planned parenthood and aboriton clinics have done this for YEARS.
Many doctors also do not agree with certain BC methods :/
Love is important, but it does not buy food, or pay the rent, so to some extent money is very important.
I work in an abortion clinic, I see 8-10 women every week come in pregnant after tubal ligations or a vasectomy.. |
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ImmortalOne
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| Posted: 03/10/07 - 16:28 Post subject: |
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I work in an abortion clinic, I see 8-10 women every week come in pregnant after tubal ligations or a vasectomy.. |
Wow Cari, I didn't know this statistic was so high. Are the litigations or vasectomy's recent or older? |
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Carifairy
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| Posted: 03/10/07 - 18:12 Post subject: |
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I am considering a tubal ligation, but then I see these women and get scared..
This happened months ago, but this womans husband has a V, he had it like 1.5 years prior, clean sperm count... HE left her because he thought she cheated, she got an abortion and we sent out the tissue for paternity testing etc.. whatever they do..
I kept in contact with her because this hurt her terribly, she had 5 kids, and knew she was done permanently. Ins would only cover a V and not a tubal ligation for her, so they just went with the V...
She proved he WAS the father, and she left him even though he 'took her back'... Because she said that there was no reason for him to act like that.
Ummm.. Recent tubals, one woman had a tubal 6 months prior...Women that are 45-46 who have had tubals for 10-15 years will fidn hemselves pregnant.
When we say nothing is 100%, we really mean it  |
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SweetestThingoxo
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| Posted: 03/11/07 - 13:27 Post subject: |
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| ImmortalOne wrote: | | Carifairy wrote: |
I work in an abortion clinic, I see 8-10 women every week come in pregnant after tubal ligations or a vasectomy.. |
Wow Cari, I didn't know this statistic was so high. Are the litigations or vasectomy's recent or older? |
They arent so high, ppl lie their whohas off to get free medical care 'after the fact'.
It is simply easier to get rid of a problem then it is to educate yourself about it and take every precaution.
In the case of vasectomy's.. testing can be done to make sure there is no sperm, there are ways to check these forms of BC.
ppl simply put it out of their minds.
When you sky dive... is there ever a parachute 'gaurenteed' to open...?
If you dont care enough to back it up, why care so much to at all...? |
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Carifairy
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| Posted: 03/11/07 - 14:41 Post subject: |
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FREE medical care?!
ABORTION is not free!!
ONLY 3-4 states have funding for an abortion, MOST states do not.
YES, You can prove you had a tubal ligation by bringing in medical bills. MANY women will bring in their medical bills to prove they had a tubal ligation, because they are ashamed and feel that we will judge them.
YES, you can become pregnant after sterilization. YOU KNOW WHY? Because NOTHING IS 100% |
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| Posted: 03/12/07 - 10:48 Post subject: General Response |
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| Ok senior girl, I think you really need to see a doctor or go to a clinic before things get too far along. Also, I think that we should all be respectful of other people's opinions wether we think they are wrong or not. No matter what things you say to hurt some person that you don't even know you most likely aren't going to change their mind about anything you'll just make them upset. Last, for anyone who is thinking of a self induced miscarriage, I recommend that you see a doctor who can help you and give you responsible options. Be healthy, you may not want to have a baby but your body is what you have to deal with for the rest of your life. |
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| Posted: 03/15/07 - 03:22 Post subject: Re: Need Help |
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| senior girl wrote: | | ok me and my ex tried to have a baby but it never work and he left so i meet someone new years later and i am now 2 month almost 3 and i want to go to college and everything else i thought about abortion but its to scary, how can i cause a miscarriage cuz he don't want it and i just want to get my lfe together first so what can i do to cause a miscarriage? please help me i'm only 18 its my senior year! |
Where i live at our high school we have a young mums class it is excellent and there are alot of young mum's in there getting there SACE.. Do you have anything like there where you live? |
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| Posted: 03/20/07 - 22:12 Post subject: |
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| Why the hell did you even try to get pregnant if you are only 18 now. If you are mature enough to have sex, then grow the f*** up and have the kid |
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