Is There a Way to Cause a Miscarriage?

brin1 · Newbie Joined: 09 Apr 2007 Posts: 1

If you are five months along and questioning what you want there are always options still. Some clinics will perform abortion up to six n and half months of pregnancy, but if you decide you want to do this make sure it is for the right reasons. I am not saying I am for abortion because I was adopted and know how wonderful adoption can be. Do what you feel is right for your baby and you.

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Those who judge will be judged. I feel as though people loose sight of the individual's life. Stop preaching about the child’s life; in that case any individual on birth control is killing numerous children. How far back to you want to go? Yes, everyone should be practicing safe sex, but pregnancy is the smallest of your worries if you're not. If someone chooses to have an abortion then so be it. I don't believe any of us is in a situation to judge anyone else; we all have enough skeletons in our closets to worry about.
For all of you women unable to bare children, I'm truly sorry, but it's not our fault. God is not punishing you for the mistakes of someone else. Deal with that issue on your own, stop lashing out.

truth05 · Newbie Joined: 24 Apr 2007 Posts: 1

it blows my mind how people especially women can jude one another like this. i had an abortion 2 years ago and the only feeling of calm i had was the married mother of 3 sitting next to me who was doing what i was doing. this effects women off all types, social status, and religions. i believe it was the right decision for me due to the fact i was in an abusive relationship that no child should be brought up in. and giving up the child for adoption isn't always the right answer either; what is to garentee that the child would have wound up in a good home? it all comes down to your belief system. but it still isn't right to judge one another. granted alot of people don't believe in the termination of pregnancy but put yourself in my shoes when i was only 19 and raped by a man i thought i loved me. imagine the emotional distress my child would have felt if it ever knew the story of its conception. as women we should be supporting one another instead of pointing blame. birth control is not always a garentee. i was on it and followed it to the specific insructions they tell you this when you are issued it and i still had to go through this. my family knew and my mom even was ther waiting for me through it all, not just because she was my mom but because she knew i need a shoulder to lean on. so please to all of you out there, just be supportive and if you can't be then please just do not post anything on here. these situations are tough enough without the judgement of others. treat these women and girls how you would want to be treated.

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that one **** needs to shut **** up cause she does not know what is going on in some peoples lives and why they have chosen to go that route but who is she to place judgement on anyone do what you need to do for you its your choice.

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please listen to me...there are alot of people in the world who are not as lucky as you to get pregnant..please don't abort it...if you don't want it, there are plenty of other people who do and who will give that child a wonderful life..abortion is a life changing event...you trade one problem for a much bigger one that you will deal with for the rest of your life...remember that is a HUMAN BEING growing inside of you!!...i have been where you are and yes, people will be upset with you at first but after a while they will see that child as the blessing that it truly is...trust me....

Dannyhepls · Newbie Joined: 18 May 2007 Posts: 1

I totally agree with Canadian girl! It is not our place as a human being to throw stones and criticise- mother of two! If you were so good you would have compassion of this poor woman in this terrible situation and in terrible grief and pain.

Dear pperez81, It is a very hard decision you're facing and I am sure that you are in great pain and I feel for you. However, it is not just a question of being right or wrong. Ask YOURSELF:is this safe? The answer is possibly NO! Dont put your life a risk because who will look after your little girl. Try to see if you can get professional help and please for your sake, God's sake and your little Girl's sake DONT DO THIS ON YOUR OWN as it could be very DANGEROUS!!!

God bless & help you. xx

DaileysRebel · Newbie Joined: 18 May 2007 Posts: 1 Location: KY

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For all you who think that it is ok to have an abortion!!! Go home and read the bible it is a sin to have an abortion!! I can't see how someone could kill something that is a part of them. If you don't ever want to have kids then you should refrain from sex all together until you are ready for that to happen. It is a shame i sat and cried so many times because I didn't think I could have kids. Now I am 29 and I'm about 6 weeks pregnant and scared to death because I started spotting. Just the thought that I might lose my child kills me inside. I sit back and see all these crack heads and abusive parents having children and it makes me sick. I always wondered why people like that were lucky enough to have children and people like me can't. I lived in a home where the parents didn't want the child, but that hasn't stopped me. That just made me more likely to love my child unconditionally. That is if I get to have this child or any for that matter. So the choice is up to you but remember it will be GOD that will be left to judge you in the end. He is the only one allowed to judge anyone. Idea

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I am only 20 my boyfriend and I are 15 weeks pregnant I am scared to death. I am left constantly thinking about my future wondering what the right thing to do is. I have had one abortion before 2 years ago it was a total nightmare. People glorify it as an easy way out, but the emotional turmoil it put me through was almost unbearable. Im not telling you what to do because of course it is up to you and you only I just wanted to share with you a small bit of my life from someone who understands and isn't going to judge.

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Is There a Way to Cause a Miscarriage?

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