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 Posted: 11/30/07 - 15:04 Post subject: think before you speak (or type :) ) |
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| To mamaof2, I don't think that was respectful what you put. I am prolife as well, but these girls are facing a serious dilemma and having a stranger judge them is not something they need right now. Instead of being judgemental maybe you could step back and try to put yourself in their shoes. I think responding in anger doesn't help the situation at all. You are right, they could have the baby and put it up for adoption, but I'm sure they would be more willing to listen to that reasoning than someone calling them disgusting and easy. I think you should be very ashamed of yourself. |
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| Posted: 12/20/07 - 19:01 Post subject: ok and so... |
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Okay mamaof2 and ones like her:
I am a full time student an mother of 2. I am on birth control and the father of my girls and I use condoms now, but I think I am pregnant again. Are you saying that I am ignorant if I think that an abortion is the right choice for my family at this time? I need to further my education that was at a stand still while I was doing "the right thing" before. So what is your great advice now? Adoption would seem like the answer, but I don't think that is feasible since I still have to work and go to school to support the children I do want. THIS IS THE COMPLETE TRUTH. I can't believe that I can even be pregnant again. |
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| Posted: 12/31/07 - 21:26 Post subject: |
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Reply to mamaof2 -
So by your reasoning, a woman should have each and every egg in her ovaries fertilized or she is a bad person? I wouldn't call that reasoning. A woman is not a human incubator, and there is a big difference between giving a being life and being able to provide a being WITH a life. All this anti-abortionist nonsense is based on a patriarchal, totalitarian, antiquated and un educated system of belief, if you don't like the idea of a termination, then don't read the messages, find a "God Botherer" site instead, leave the girls alone - they need support and advice, not the opinions of some medieval stepford wife. If you can't be constructive and if you can't see beyond your own selfish, blinkered and ridiculous opinions, then don't inflict them upon other individuals. |
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| Posted: 01/06/08 - 15:32 Post subject: |
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| you know those of you WANTING a miscarriage, are really hurting people like me who wanted our pregnancies to go full term. why post on this site knowing that women who have had miscarriages would see it? do you have no heart? why would you WANT to cause a miscarriage. you are only causing harm to yourself and your potential children. |
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| Posted: 01/14/08 - 18:03 Post subject: reply to all those that want a miscarriage... |
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| To all of the girls that want to cause their own miscarriage for whatever purposes, try googling "miscarriage causes" Do a bit of research and find out what you shouldn't do and do it. There are ways to cause them. |
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| Posted: 01/16/08 - 21:49 Post subject: calm down people! |
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| all i have to say .. is that this website is to HELP one another .. not to fight .. for those of you who disagree with abortions .. there's other ways to state your opinions OTHER than calling people stupid and irresponsible because in all actuality, not all the women who are seeking to terminate their pregnancies have said how the babies were conceived .. and let me be the FIRST to tell you that many women who have been RAPED are on here looking to terminate their pregnancies .. others have mental and physical disabilities that prevent them from carrying out a normal pregnancy .. it is a free country and i know that you can say whatever you want .. but for those of you seeking to deter women from terminating their pregnancies, please consider WHY they may be doing it .. no matter how inhumane abortion can be .. calling one another stupid and irresponsible isnt going to get your point across .. it just shows how stupid you are .. |
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| Posted: 02/07/08 - 11:53 Post subject: |
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I havent read all of this thread but i just wanted to say those of you that decide you are smart and mature enough to have sex...need to just deal with the consequence instead of just "killing" it away.
I am against abortion..its not right. You will regret your decision in years to come..especially if Karma is a bitch and you can no longer creat children in the years to come because of a "botched" abortion you got when you were young and dumb....What goes around comes around....
Don't kill your baby...give he/she to someone that will love he/she and give he/she the life he/she deserves.
I could go on and on about ppl who have no heart to intentionally cause miscarriages and get abortions but its already been said....
IAM PRO LIFE. |
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| Posted: 02/07/08 - 17:02 Post subject: What the hell! |
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| It is rediculous you people would intentionally kill a baby.If you didn't want one.Or weren't "ready" to have one.Then obviously you shouldn't have had sex.I hate hearing about people who are ready enough to have sex knowing IT COULD GET YOU PREGNANT!but aren't ready enough for a baby.HELLOOOOO!!!You should be ashamed.I realize it's hard.I'm currently pregnant.The point is what's the difference in having SEx with another man.But not having a baby with him.Hmmm make sense.I mean your giving your body to HIM.Why not a baby.If not there is other options than murder people.I mean seriously.You can't consider adoption?Or are you to selfish to give the babies YOU made a chance at life.I'm sure some of your parents weren't ready.But at least you got your chance.At least you can HAVE babies when your ready unlike some people who can't have kids but want one horribly.Give your baby and a GOOD person a chance.Just because YOUR not ready to take responsibility doesn't mean that baby isn't ready for LIFE! |
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| Posted: 02/07/08 - 19:30 Post subject: Re: My Girlfriends Pregnant; It's not mine; I want to cause |
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| Guest wrote: | I am 16. My girlfriend is 16. We've been together for 2 1/2 months. She got pregnant by someone else. She is currently 4-5 weeks, we aren't 100% sure. She is quasi-christian, and does not beleive in abourtion, and thinks adoption is pretty much the same thing. I've forgiven her for cheating on me. But i don't want her to keep it. I have already volunteered to father the child. The real father is only 14, and we're not sure how he feels yet, or if we're even gonna tell him. I'll stand beside her, but not before I do everything in my power to make things my way. | Quote: | | Is there a way for me to cause a miscarriage without her knowing? |
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| Posted: 02/07/08 - 19:35 Post subject: Re: My Girlfriends Pregnant; It's not mine; I want to cause |
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| Guest wrote: | | I'll stand beside her, but not before I do everything in my power to make things my way. Is there a way for me to cause a miscarriage without her knowing? |
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Umm did no one see this? He wants to kill this girls unborn child... Hey Kid, do you know it's ILLEGAL! You could be charged with man slaughter! How dare you try and kill her baby, it's not your choice! |
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