Is girlfriend still attracted to me?

larryboy · Newbie Joined: 02 Jan 2007 Posts: 2

I have had the same girlfriend for over a year and we used to do allot of things sexually but over time in decreased and decreased and now we do nothing and i talk to her about it and she aggres we dont do things as much and she just said she was stressed and tired and then other time we talked about it she said that she needs to be put in the mood. she never used to need to be put in the mood. she used to cum really fast when i fingered her and now it takes a long time. she never initiates anything sexual and she isnt really doing it enthusiastically. she claims she still finds me attractive but idk. Help

thedoctorisin · Newbie Joined: 22 Mar 2007 Posts: 120

There are several possibilities here. One, your relationship's over and she doesn't know how to tell you yet. This means either she simply can not bring herself to have sex with you because the relationship is through (and for most women sex is about 70% mental/emotional, 30% physical), or she's already getting her fill somewhere else. If you are absolutely sure she still digs you and wants to be in your relationship, then I would ask if she has been on any new prescriptions lately as these can be found to drastically reduce libido in some women. This can also include birth control, so it may be a chemical problem if she's lost her sex drive.

samguy700 · Newbie Joined: 19 Mar 2007 Posts: 95

she is either cheating finds you unatractive the relationship is over or she has lost her sex drive to a medication theres loads of sites that tell you what food increase sex drive but i would recomend cinamon but i would research which foods would do it too

Is girlfriend still attracted to me?

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