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 Posted: 02/25/07 - 22:37 Post subject: am i pregnant? |
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my situation is also similar. my bf was fingering me but he didnt clean or attempt to clean his hands. im very nervous that i could be pregnant!  |
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| Posted: 03/21/07 - 07:39 Post subject: Fingered her after cleaning my finger |
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| I had sperm on my index finger. I cleaned it, and MOST PROBABLY fingered her with my middle finger. We are still very concerned. If she is pregnant, we would like to abort AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. Please suggest what form of abortion/checkup/pills she should take. This happened 72 hours before this post. |
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| Posted: 06/29/07 - 22:33 Post subject: Re: Is it possible to get pregnant by fingering in this case |
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| my boyfriend fingered me with his right hand, after he got sperm all over his left hand. he washed his hands 5 times, scrubbing his fingers. should i be worried about getting pregnant?? |
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| Posted: 11/14/07 - 21:34 Post subject: |
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hey i had the same thing happen to me
my boyfriend fingered me and i was scared he had sperm on his hand. i started bleeding the next morning and i got really scared. I went to the hospital that night and they said everything was fine but i asked them for the emergency contraception pill to make sure i wouldn't get pregnant.
over the next few weeks i kept getting symptoms of pregnancy. I ended up taking the pregnancy test almost a month later, and i'm not pregnant! Thank God. The thing is, the more you think about it and worry, the more the symptoms or pseudo-symptoms are going to come up. What i mean is that if you know the symptoms of being pregnant are being tired, peeing often, implantation bleeding, heavy enlarged breasts, etc, they WILL happen to you. i had every single one of those symptoms. You create the worst possible scenario in your head and you continue to get paranoid.
To be honest, i read this forum and it freaked me out so bad that i couldn't sleep for weeks. Now that i know for sure i'm NOT pregnant, i wanted to come back and reassure some people who may be in this situation, or will be in the future, that
1. it IS possible to get pregnant through fingering. it's highly unlikely, but possible. just have your boyfriend wash his hands with soap and water before he does anything else
2. you can get emergency contraception (Plan B, Ovral 21) and take it within 5 days of the incident and the chances of getting pregnant are lower
3. search for hotlines so you can seek help and speak to nurses who can calm you down and reassure you
4. Don't frantically search all over the internet because you will get more worried. It's times like these when the phrase "out of sight, out of mind" works. If you dont see the stuff to worry you, you dont think about it.
5. If you ARE pregnant, all the best to you =) |
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| Posted: 01/07/08 - 22:09 Post subject: |
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k, ok. So I was in a situation very similar to this one this past month. I personally just want to speak out for others who, like me, or completely stressed out and panicking and are receiving a lot of inaccurate information and 'maybe' answers. My girlfriend gave me a hand job. I wasn't even sure if I got any of it on my hand and if I had, I would have wiped it off on my jeans. Approximately three minutes later I proceeded to finger her. I didn't even think about any chance of her becoming pregnant. She later, very nervously, told me she was worried, and asked me if i had any cum on my hands before after she jerked me, and i honestly answered that I didn't know. So for about 10 days I was on the verge of having a heart attack and reading bunches and bunches of forums similar to these. I am to the conclusion that the chance of getting pregnant from something like that is like 0.1
percent. if that. and my girlfriend wasn't pregnant. and now we both laugh about it. just figured i'd add some in put with an actual outcome. hope this helps! |
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| Posted: 07/31/08 - 00:42 Post subject: |
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Bleeding can happen because of the hymen, even after the first time. Not all women's hymens break, and my doctor even told me that some women will have completely intact hymens even after they're pregnant.
This happened to me, I'm going for a pregnancy test at the lab in a few days. I'm looking around trying to find out what my chances are, hoping I'll just tire myself out and go to sleep. Both my boyfriend and I are a little freaked out, even if the chances are really low. It would suck to get pregnant without the hot night of sex before it 
To all people in this situation: do not freak out. We'll end up giving ourselves the symptoms, along with high blood pressure and lack of sleep. Not good. Remember that there's a reason that there are millions of sperm in one ejaculation. The chances of the few that would be on his finger reaching your egg are very very slim. Next time, get him to finger you first. That's what I'm gunna do *grin*.
I'm telling myself this as well as anyone who's reading this. Remain clam! ...I mean calm. |
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| Posted: 08/02/08 - 20:07 Post subject: Re: Is it possible to get pregnant by fingering in this case |
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| isabella wrote: | | it happened on the 14th august , my boyfriend fingered me on that day , as i were scared, i told my boyfriend to use left hand to masterbate and right hand to finger me , his sperm was on my body after he masterbate , he used tissue to cleaned it for me , few minutes later , he touched my body and he tried to finger me again , i was scare and i said it might still contain sperm but he said he've already used tissue to cleaned it so he fingered me and i am so worried , today is the 20 th and i got tender breast , it feels painful whenever i touches it i was so confused couse i could not identify whether this is the symptoms of pregnancy or the symptoms before menstruation.Because every month before i got my mensturation my breast will feel painful and hard. my menstruation came on the 30th last month .I've did some research and found out that is possible for a woman to get pregnant is someone fingered her with a finger that contains sperm on it, can anyone please help me with this?i really need some advise thank you so much! |
Hey hun,
im sure your fine!!! chances are there but very slim!
I used to freak out every month that i was preg after i got fingered
but if you think about it... so many people have unprotected sex and they dont get preg. im sure a finger will not get you preg!
And for the bleeding... he could be going to hard, my ex once made me bleed for two days so tell him to go not so hard. Just relax because stress will make you late.
Also i had a friend get preg because she used no method of birth control... stupid idea but any who. You do not get preg symptoms untill 2 months so try and relax. Also her mom is a nurse so its a legit source.
Get on the pill that will make you relax you also dont need parental permission for that! Best of luck babe! |
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