Is it possible to get pregnant by fingering in this case?

isabella · Newbie Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Posts: 20

it happened on the 14th august , my boyfriend fingered me on that day , as i were scared, i told my boyfriend to use left hand to masterbate and right hand to finger me , his sperm was on my body after he masterbate , he used tissue to cleaned it for me , few minutes later , he touched my body and he tried to finger me again , i was scare and i said it might still contain sperm but he said he've already used tissue to cleaned it so he fingered me and i am so worried , today is the 20 th and i got tender breast , it feels painful whenever i touches it i was so confused couse i could not identify whether this is the symptoms of pregnancy or the symptoms before menstruation.Because every month before i got my mensturation my breast will feel painful and hard. my menstruation came on the 30th last month .I've did some research and found out that is possible for a woman to get pregnant is someone fingered her with a finger that contains sperm on it, can anyone please help me with this?i really need some advise thank you so much!

frustrated · Silver Member Joined: 26 Jun 2006 Posts: 205

Hi There,

From the way you explained it, it is not likely that you are pregnant. You did not say however where he ejaculated on your body. Once sperm contacts air survival rates deplete quickly. There seems to be a time frame in between him wiping off and starting again.
He should have washed his hands before the two of you began again. If you are going to be intimate with anyone please do it safely. Getting on a form of BC and using a condom are sure fire ways to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. As well, if you feel uncomfortable, insist that your bf wash himself and take all precautions before anything else occurs.

isabella · Guest

Thank you so much for your advise and actually he ejaculated on my stomach then he touched the exactly same place before he fingered me again. plus 14th Aug was my fertaile day thats why i'm so nervous and i would like to ask , if a woman is pregnant , when will the pregnancy symptoms appear? (such as tender breast)

From what you said , should I be worrying ? because these few days I just couldnt fall asleep beofre I kept wondering am I pregnant or not Sad

frustrated · Silver Member Joined: 26 Jun 2006 Posts: 205

Early sysmptoms of pregnancy can start with or without implantation bleeding 4 to 6 days after conception took place and is light or brownish. You will not normally feel breast tenderness, dizziness, nausea, gas etc... until a month or month and a half. Some women feel pregnant earlier but mainly from intuition. You should not have anything to worry about in this situation.
As a side note stress can also delay a period. Wait until your next period and if it is late take a HPT.

isabella · Guest

thank you so much for answering my question:)
actually i have one more question.
on the 18th Aug some blood came out from my vagina while my boyfriend is fingering me , is that implantation bleeding? or some kind of infection occured because my boyfriend's nails are too sharp?
as you said it normally happens four days after, I'm just wondering could that be implantation bleeding?but some kind of same experience happened in every month.

oitoy! · Newbie Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Posts: 36

wow, ur situation is very very similar to mine. 1st time he fingered me i had blood and i thought that he might have tore the hymen, but then 2nd time i bled as well and it hit me that it could ve been his nails cos they are a bit sharp. i'm also worried about being pregnant and im going through breast tenderness, but it s only been like a week and 5 days that my bf and i fooled around so i doubt it pretty much that im pregnant cos normally, i get tender breasts so....but im still kinda worried. oh well i'll wait and see.
good luck with you Wink

isabella · Newbie Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Posts: 20

Thank you so much for your advise as well Smile

good luck to you too!

isabella · Newbie Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Posts: 20

To Frustrated,
thank you so much for answering my question:)
actually i have one more question.
on the 18th Aug some blood came out from my vagina while my boyfriend is fingering me , is that implantation bleeding? or some kind of infection occured because my boyfriend's nails are too sharp?
as you said it normally happens four days after, I'm just wondering could that be implantation bleeding?but some kind of same experience happened in every month.

Guest · Posted: 08/21/06 - 09:23 Post subject:

I would say that it was due to his nails being to sharp as this area in particular is very sensitive with many vessels. Suggest he cut his nails.

isabella · Newbie Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Posts: 20

Thank you so much for your advise Smile

I will ask my boyfriend to cut his nails

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