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 Posted: 05/28/08 - 15:38 Post subject: |
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| It doesn't matter how you refer to abortion. "removing the fetus" or "baby killing" it's the same procedure. abort means to stop. what you want to stop is the pregnancy. if she chooses it, every woman should have access to a safe abortion, a safe baby killing or a safe fetus removal. whatever you want to call it. miscarriage is the same thing, the pregnancy is stopped except you didn't do it on purpose. saying it's baby killing is irrelevant. who cares what you call it. describing the procedure makes no difference either, miscarriage is horrifying. abortion is horrifying. abortion should be rare. couples should practice better family planning. every pregnancy should be wanted. however, be realistic, sometimes things happen that we don't want. in that case there should be a safe way. abortion is not birth control, we all know that. women who seek abortions do so for very good reasons. abortion is a traumatic experience that you may never get over. having the baby is also very very traumatic. and you will definitely never get over that. bottom line: each woman chooses what she wants. you wouldn't want someone to force you to have an abortion. you wouldn't want to be forced to have a baby. people don't choose to become pregnant, unfortunately sometimes it does just happen, even when you try to prevent it. it's just unfortunate. women ending pregnancy has existed in every culture all over the globe, from the beginning of time. it's not gonna change ever. nobody wants to go through an abortion, it's not like its the next fun in-thing to do. |
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| Posted: 05/29/08 - 19:59 Post subject: |
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| I can't even beleive your saying that...I just had a baby today at 20 weeks pregnant, she was perfect had 10 fingers and toes she just died in uterine and it was just one of those things but what your saying brings tears to my eyes because i am struggling with the thought that my daughter died and i will never be able to hold her, hear her laugh or kiss her chubby face...if you didnt want baby why did you wait so long to figure it out!!! I wonder about people these days!!!! |
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| Posted: 06/09/08 - 09:01 Post subject: |
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| I can't believe a women of 41 years is thinking of KILLING her child. People believe teenagers are irrisponsible but to have a 41 year old thinking on stoping the heartbeat of a fully formed human by herself and so late in time is just cruel you are a disgrace! Why wait so long to abort now? You are a cold heartless person! may god forgive you! And may your unborn child forgive you too. |
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| Posted: 06/14/08 - 06:50 Post subject: |
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so you waited until you were 20 weeks to decide if you want the baby or not.You said you already have kids now so you should know the joy of carrying a baby, let alone giving birth to it. Wont you try adoption, it is a hard thing to go threw with. But if you can aboard YOUR baby @ 20 weeks, adoption shpuld be a breeze for you. But the bottom line is getting a abortion @ 20 or 21 weeks is MURDER because the heart is not only pumping but it can move, hear, taste and even urinate.
BEST OF LUCK AND GOD BLESS!!! |
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| Posted: 06/14/08 - 06:56 Post subject: |
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so you waited until you were 20 weeks to decide if you want the baby or not.You said you already have kids now so you should know the joy of carrying a baby, let alone giving birth to it. Wont you try adoption, it is a hard thing to go threw with. But if you can aboard YOUR baby @ 20 weeks, adoption shpuld be a breeze for you. But the bottom line is getting a abortion @ 20 or 21 weeks is MURDER because the heart is not only pumping but it can move, hear, taste and even urinate.
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| Posted: 06/14/08 - 17:52 Post subject: abortion at 20 weeks |
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| there have been cases where babies prematurely born at 20 weeks survived and have grown into healthy normal adults. think about that before you opt for an abortion. |
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| Posted: 06/21/08 - 11:53 Post subject: |
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| I am absolutely horrified that you could even think about "trying" to misscary. That is the worst thing I've ever heard. I am 20 wks pregnant with my 3rd and I wouldn't even consider something so awful. I was not expecting this baby and we had talked about me having my tubes tied right before I found out I was pregnant, but we would never think of not having the baby. There must be a reason we are having this child even if we do not know it yet and the same goes for you. Think about that. |
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| Posted: 07/17/08 - 06:10 Post subject: |
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 that is just sick that you can think of getting an abortion at 20 weeks gone your baby has a heart beat at 3 weeks, how can you just decide at 20 weeks you don't want the baby that you have carried for half the pgregnancy, i had a misscarriage at 7 weeks n i woz gutted am only 15 but no matter how young i am i could never get rid of my own flesh and blood just think carfully on how that will effect you and your familly in the long run i already have a baby that is 10 months old and i love him to bit's and would not change a thing in my life am 15 and made a decision that could have changed me in a bad way but changed me in a good way think about the children you already have they might like a new brother or sister k think carfully |
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| Posted: 07/22/08 - 16:00 Post subject: |
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| Amazon\mama wrote: | | Look, you can call abortion murder all you want. Forcing someone to have a baby they just don't want for their own personal reasons is just like a slow death to the woman pregnant with an unwanted child. I recently had a miscarriage and I personally now am willing to try to get pregnant, in a planned way. Not just the usual, oops I did it again way that many other women do. There are too many children in this country and others that are unwanted and need to be adopted. So, until the day you can adopt every unwanted, poverty stricken child here and internationally, you have zero right to talk nonsense to someone who doesn't want to have a baby and contribute to the overpopulation of unwanted children. Enough is enough, get on your soapbox at some right wing nut ball political site. |
Speaking of soapbox, what are the statistics that you base your comment of contributing "to the overpopulation of unwanted children?" What constitutes 'overpopulation?' And how do you know all of these children are unwanted? Now those are absurd comments. Crawl back under your soapbox and don't come back unless informed and armed with statistics.
Also, if someone comes to a PUBLIC forum, they will get a multitude of varying responses - especially on a subject as controversial as abortion. You have a right to your opinion as do others you may not agree with. Get over yourself. |
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| momofanangel84 wrote: | | I hate to be all of you out there who are judging people if you want to talk about what is going to happen on judgment day. We are not the ones to be passing judgment on people, that job alone if for God to do. For any of us who has decided to put His job into our hands by trying to lay judgment on someone is wrong. For one I am not for abortions in the least, but there are situations that doing so can not be avoided. Instead of some of you standing on your soap box trying to preach what is right, go back into the bible. God doesn't want anyone of us to do His job and pass judgment. The people who have come here are seeking advice, not criticism. If you can't deal with that, then don't come to this site. |
Since you brought it up, you really should go back and read your bible. You are right about judging. We should not do that. We should not be telling this woman that she is an evil or horrible person for even considering abortion. No one knows her heart. However, we do have a right (and are commanded by God) to encourage her (or anyone) to do what is "righteous and good in the eyes of the Lord." He is the absolute standard for what is right and wrong - Absolute Truth. Jesus said, "Who so shall receive one such little child in My name receiveth Me" (Matt.18:5) Also, Jeremiah 1:5 tells us that God knows us before He knits us in the womb. Psalm 139:13-16 speaks of God’s active role in our creation and formation in the womb. Exodus 21:22-25 prescribes the same penalty for someone who causes the death of a baby in the womb as the penalty for someone who commits murder. This clearly indicates that God considers a baby in the womb as just as much of a human being as a full-grown adult. So, you see, God has made it pretty clear what HIS judgement is on the matter of abortion. People who support this are not standing in judgment of someone else, they are standing in support of God's judgement. And for those who may read this and roll their eyes chalking it up to another bible thumping statement...just because you don't agree with Truth does not mean that it isn't the Truth. You can't find Truth within yourself. God is the only basis by which we should judge what is right and wrong. |
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