Is this supposed to happen after you lose your virginity?

mmxp · Newbie Joined: 17 Jun 2006 Posts: 7

I lost my virginity a little over a week ago. Unprotected (Yeah, I know, bad idea), and havent had sex since then. Everything was just fine until a couple days ago, now i feel weak, dizzy, small headache, and have very little appetite. Yesterday my breasts were a little sore and I had a little bit of cramps/stomach pain, and chills, but those have seemed to have gone away for the most part now. I keep worrying that im pregnant. But would I have symptoms that soon? Or do these things happen after you lose your virginity, is it my body's way of adjusting to having had sex for the first time? Im quite worried. So could this all just be in my head and im worrying myself sick? PLEASE! let me know if you have any ideas what might be going on!! Im kind of desperate!!

crzyfl · Veteran Joined: 07 Apr 2006 Posts: 1164

It is hard to know the likelyhood of pregnancy without knowing what part of your cycle you were at. How long is your cycle normally, and what cycle day were you on? Cycle day one is the first day of your last period.

mmxp · Newbie Joined: 17 Jun 2006 Posts: 7

the first day of my last period was around the 21st of last month. i dont know really how long the cycle is, it kind of varries from month to month. I should be expecting it some time in the next week or so.

my main question though is if your body can do things like this after losing virginity?

just out of curiosity, what is the likelyhood of getting pregnant your first time having sex?

Guest · Guest

hi well im in the same situation as this person right here i lost my virginity unprotected and i started having stomach aches and all of that and im supposed to get my period in a week and i was wondering if those symptoms could just be from loosing your virginity.

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well i think i lostit but i dont know ... but is your stomach suppost to be blodding or going to the bathroom every 10 mins..and your vigina hurting ..????

sassy1992 · Newbie Joined: 22 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

Okay so I recently lost my virginity to a man i love so very much. I am scared cause it was like on december 2nd and it is now the 22nd of december and im still having stomach aches but no bleeeding..Is this suposed to happen? what does thi mean? am i pregnant? wel its actually been the second time of loosing it..why does this happen? after him using protction and taking it off if he were to touch him self and ut his fingers in me, ould that get me pregnant?

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so mmxp did you end up being pregnant or wat? i lost my virginity like three days ago i feel the same way too im scared

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well am not tryin to scare you but if you guys are not pregnant you should check for some vaginal infection i was fellin like that about a year ago anf now i have a 2 1/2 months :!:

daisy33loca · Posted: 07/11/07 - 10:27 Post subject:

Well the origianl poster has never returned.. wonder if she was pregnant.

First off never have sex with out proper protection unless you really want a baby and or an STD or infection. I am married to someone and we have only been with eachother and we have been together for 15 years but we still use protection because we do not want another child. To not use it is pure stupidity and laziness.

When I had sex for the first time I had no discomfort, no pain bleeding, cramping or anything.

If a girl is due to have her period in say about a week, chances are she is ovulating or about to and therefor protection is a must until after her period is gone!

Normally (but everyone is differnt to a point) ovulation takes place about a week or so prior to the begining of your period. If you can, pay attention to your body and you will actually be able to feel yourself ovulating. It took me time but now I can and it makes things alot safer.

here is info to deterimne IF you have or are about to ovulate.. may be able to be hlepful to see if your chances of pregnancy were very high during your last sexual experience...

A woman's monthly cycle is measured from the first day of her menstrual period until the first day of her next period. On average, a woman's cycle normally is between 28-32 days, but some women may have much shorter cycles or much longer ones. Ovulation can be calculated by starting with the day the last menstrual period (LMP) starts or by calculating 12-16 days from the next expected period. Most women ovulate anywhere between Day 11 - Day 21 of their cycle, counting from the first day of the LMP. This is what many refer to as the "fertile time" of a woman's cycle, because sexual intercourse during this time increases the chance of pregnancy. Ovulation can occur at various times during a cycle, and may occur on a different day each month.

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im having the same exact problems.
i lost my virginity a week ago, with a 18 year old
and im 15. he didn't use protection. i had my period
3 days after we had sex, so i didn't think i was pregnant.
but then i realized that it takes 6-12 days to start getting
signs. i had a longer then usually period, and i went all day
yesterday without it and it started back today, then i read
that between 6-12 days if you start bleeding again you have
the possibility of being pregnant.. im scared, and so is he.

im fifteen.. FIFTEEN!
my first time to have sex, and my whole life
might be ruined..

Is this supposed to happen after you lose your virginity?

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