It didn't feel good... si this normal

15andparanoid · Newbie Joined: 18 Sep 2006 Posts: 7 Location: Victoria

I have had sex three times... my first times... yet it didn't feel abit pleasurable... is this normal?

Also when my boy gives me oral... it doesn't feel good either... or when we have dry sex (clothes on) none of it feels the slighest bit pleasurable!

jen_e_g · Newbie Joined: 18 Sep 2006 Posts: 22

You may not be ready for sex, he might not be the right one. Or if you are and you're perfectly comfortable with this going on, yes it is normal to feel this way. It takes a long time to get relaxed and "loosin" up, because your hymen could still be working its way open. I know this sounds a little vulgar but it takes time. Try and making it easier by doing things that please you and get you relaxed, don't force it.

It didn't feel good... si this normal

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