It is so annoying having strict parents

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Hi

my parents are nice to me, but sometimes they`re crazy, too! Twisted Evil

I never can go to city alone. Only sometimes I do it without permisson.
Rolling Eyes

I must go early to bed.
Of course Idon`t sleep then. Razz

And of course I musn`t play long computer. Sad

I must learn vor school!
Crying or Very sad

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brandde · Newbie Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 1

I know this is an old post, but I wanted to just put a couple of comments in here...I am a parent of two babies and one day they will be teenage girls. I love my girls more than anything in the world and I know that your parents feel exactly the same way, even if it doesn't feel that way.

Trust me when I say, you are going through a huge emotional change at your age. This is normal. The thing is, do you all really think your parents are so strict, or do you think that maybe you are changing and they are trying to protect you? I remember being 16 and thinking I knew everything about the world that there was to know. I thought I was much smarter and much more clever than my parents. I thought they knew nothing about being a teenager or about me. When I look back I realize now that every teenager feels that way. You see, you are growing and changing so fast right now and it is difficult to see the world beyond yourself.

Trust me again, you will get through this. Try not to hate your parents or blame them for loving you and wanting to protect you and control what you are doing, where you are going, with who, when and why. It is difficult to understand, but they know so much more about the world and what is in it - it's dangers - than you do. They don't do it to annoy you, they do it because it is their job to keep you safe and ultimately grow you into a functioning adult.

It is just a short time. A few years. You will see how different you feel in a few years! When you have your own children, especially, you will see how different you feel and how much you truly understand why they are the way they are.

Trust your parents. Trust me. Listen to your parents. Respect their decisions. Don't do drugs. Don't drink. Don't smoke. Don't kill yourself before you get to live....oh, and wait a few years before you even think about sex! Ah, I sound like someone's parents hmm?

Good luck and God bless you.

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Currently I am 18, and my parents have only let me go out 3 TIMES in ma whole life. they have not let me go out with any of my friends. and they dont let me go 2 the movies, hangout, or anything of that sort. and i got A+ in college just to convince em that i am responsiable to go out.

Ive read most the posts, but in my situation, its ridiculous. my parents own a store, and i help them out 3 days a week, and i dont get paid anything for it. and my parents also are forcing me 2 get an arranged marriage........and ive read the comments regarding the females/males differences. btw, i am a male. so that does not apply with me.

any body have any suggestions? i cant run away, cuz ma father is a wealthy Indian Buisness man....... he can basically get anything done. and i fear that if i run away, something will happen. currently i have a good relationship with my parents, but i just want them to let me out.

any suggestions on how 2 convince them?

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Im 17 right now and my mom bugs the heck out of me. its so annoying and hard ever since high school started shes been bugging and shes making life more difficult for me. I understand the whole they are here to help and support us but sometimes she takes it way to far. I really hope that this doesnt go on past 18 cause ill seriously stab myself...

It is so annoying having strict parents

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