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GIRLISH
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 Posted: 06/01/08 - 06:56 Post subject: |
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| rev32 wrote: | I think the jelousy phase your goin through is fine, I had it with my girlfriend. However, it really does play with your mind and screw up a lot of things, you'll start stressing out and feeling hurt and suspicious, which could ruin many things, heck, i was so jealous once, i gave my girlfriend the silent treatment for a week or two. She should've dumped me there and then, but she was forgiving and she was willing to sort it out. And the most important thing is to be open.
I told her about my jealousy and she understood. And well now we have the best relationship I could ever ask for. Cause after that, she reassured me that she was loyal, she even stopped being friends with some of the guys. (Looking back, I feel really stupid) After that you truly appreciate what they have done for you, and in the end you will understand and the jealousy phase will pass. The trust will develop and the green monster will disappear. |
if u stop her from meeting her friends then this is really selfish of u.
u gotta see the real her. not what U WANT to see in her.
she's gotta be a free electron(to an extent).
you'll get the real her and then decide what u wanna do. |
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Monkey293
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| Posted: 06/01/08 - 08:17 Post subject: |
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I think everyone in a relationship has a certain amount of jealousy - if you don't think you do you are probably in denial.
when i started uni a couple of years ago me and my boyfriend were in a long distance relationship - although he spent a lot of time with me at my uni. he thought i was cheating on him or liked someone else as i would do my hair and make up to go into uni (and it was coz i was comfortable being with him and not having to put so much effort in).
he told me he'd gone through my emails and my texts on my phone and that he felt really bad. i didn't mind as i had nothing to hide and told him that if he ever felt the need to check my stuff he could as it didnt bother me.
i get jealous of him talking to girls, but i trust him and he trusts me so you deal with it! if you are really that worried about what they are doing every second of the day you shouldnt be in that relationship - you cant really love someone if you dont trust them!
be open, share your passwords, leave your phone out and make an effort to show your bf/gf that they are the only ones you love and want to be with! |
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