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justino
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 Posted: 05/20/07 - 03:20 Post subject: |
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| What am I to do? I have Just found out my girlfriend's BI! We got drunk the other night and we talked about our previous relationships and she told me she had sex with girls on several occasions! To be honest, my feelings are now all mixed up. I do love her, we have a great time together, but something is different now. I cannot tell if it is bothering me or not, I act as if any thing is normal, but I know that she will ask me if I am okay with she told me. What should I say? |
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| Posted: 05/23/07 - 21:34 Post subject: |
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| What difference does it make who she had been with before you, if you love each other? She did not cheat on you, so what is the problem. Having sex with girls does not make her a lesbian, she did choose you, after all. I have a theory regarding lesbians. Most of men do not have a problem if their girlfriends are BI. That is because, subconsciously, they do not feel endangered. On basic level, girls do not have penis, cannot leave off spring, and male within us is satisfied. Also, physically they cannot mach male rival, and again male within us is content. Of course, this theory today does not have a solid foundation, but it does sound interesting. |
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| Posted: 06/27/07 - 15:34 Post subject: |
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| dude its almost every guys dream to have a bi girlfriend. the confusion is normal because it caught you off guard |
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| Posted: 06/27/07 - 16:29 Post subject: |
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Well, judging by your wording here, you're not too comfortable with the fact that your girlfriend is bi. But as mordy said, it shouldn't make a difference. She loves you, right? Shouldn't that be all that matters?
However, there is another issue at hand here. Lots of people feel threatened, in a sense, by bisexuals, because they believe that a bisexual will only truly be happy if they are engaging in sexual activity with both sexes on a regular basis. THIS IS NOT TRUE. I myself am bisexual, and I can get just as much enjoyment from a guy as from a girl, both physical and emotional.
As for what you should say... be honest. If you're just a bit uncomfortable but want to give it some time so you can learn to accept it better, try saying something along the lines of, "You caught me off guard, and I'm a bit surprised by it. I might need a little time to be more comfortable with this, but I still love you and still want to be with you." Then give her a nice romantic hug or something. |
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