LyndseyLou195
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 Posted: 07/14/08 - 23:10 Post subject: Lesbian Sex Fantasies |
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| Lately I have been having fantasies of have sex with another women. I am happy and love my husband, but the thing is that this is something I would really like to experience. I am just not sure how to go about pursuing this. I don't want to go behind his back and make him think I am cheating on him, but on the other hand I don't want him to know. Not sure why, but I have told him before that I am not ok with him sleeping with other people (not that he has). What should I do? |
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bbfeet9
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| Posted: 07/15/08 - 09:19 Post subject: |
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Sexual curiosity toward your same gender is normal. I am not saying we all think about it, but when we do, it's really not a bad thing.
Be careful with this one. You may have the opportunity to act on your feelings and you might really like it, alot. Enough to ruin a marraige, yours to be exact.
I remember when i was in College, i often wondered about the same thing. There were many girls that i knew that were "bi" so i acted on it one day. Of course i was falling down drunk at the time, i'm talking many years ago. I did it, i got my fantasy fixed and i went on with my life. I prefer men tho, the girl on girl thing was fun and different and sex is very very different with a women. I don't mean because they have no penis, i mean the gentleness and the soothing affect it brings.
Just be careful. Sounds like you have a decent marraige.
If you really can not control your urge, don't start looking in the personnal ads or the internet, you never know what king of freak your gonna get.
Check your telephone book. Look under Escort Services. You will find what ever you need. They are clean and tested on a regular basis, but you have to pay for it. Maybe you just need to get this out of your system, but remember what i said, you might just like it. |
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