Posted: 01/16/07 - 07:57 Post subject: Losing people & depressed
Hey, i'm 13 & in November,06 my aunt,who was my best friend died from an overdose of painkillers.I find it so hard to live without her, i used to talk to her maybe three times a week & i'm living like she's going to call & say everything was a mistake. I'm so depressed yet i seem so happy in front of everyone. Also two of our family friends,one is 9, she's like a little sister & one is around 70 & is like a grandpa have cancer. The one who is like a grandpa has been told his going to die & my stepdad said tonight that he might not last until the end of the week. I can't loose someone else! The 9 year old is so sick & i heard mum saying she'll have chemo for the next two years just to try & pro-long her life! Has anyone ever lost many people or been depressed over death. I really want to hear of somebody else with the same problems. Thanks to anyone with a word of advice or anything.
hi i went through that my little cousin she got cancer around the year of 2004 and she had a to do chemo for a while. but she got through it. about your grandfather just try to hang out with him to have good memories even if it hurts. what you need to do is to clear your mind and let out your emotions trust me it really helps
Death of a family member or friend is hard but it happens to all of us at some stage it just another part of life!. It will take time to heal from losing your aunt and you never forget them but over time the pain does get less. Talk to a friend or family member about how you feel, It may help to just talk about it. When my brother died I wrote him a letter and said everything I never got a chance to and also said goodbye then I destroyed it, It really helped me maybe you could give that a try. Enjoy the time you have left with the two people who have cancer and don't dwell too much on the act that they are going to die there is plenty of time for that after.
All the best.
When my brother died I wrote him a letter and said everything I never got a chance to and also said goodbye then I destroyed it, It really helped me maybe you could give that a try.All the best.
Realy touched me that i coudent eve amadgin it happenign to me dam now you get my crying XD
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