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 Posted: 12/30/07 - 16:21 Post subject: Re: great post |
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aran, I know what you mean! I'm much more interested in girls when I don't masturbate and they seem to notice it too!  And that "sex transmutation" thing you spoke about(yeah i googled it  )might really have a seed of thruth in it...
I actually started masturbating at the age of 6 or 7(another kid my age told me to -don't ask) and at times I thought there was something wrong with me and got depressed and anxious and all that...Then finally, to solve my problem I decided to do the only thing i could think of, besides getting a hooker or scoring from an "ugly chick": I stopped masturbating, compeletelly! And it's one of the best decisions I've ever made, for real!
I mean, it didn't really do me no good so why bother? I realised it's better to relieve stress in other ways like running distance, working out, doing kegels&watching softcore, yoga, reading, skateboarding, snowboarding and whatever relaxing, physical or creative activity you can think of. At least I'm doing something beneficial, right?(improve endurance and flexibility, grow muscle, get self-respect, confidence-->get money, power, love? Maybe if I can keep it up, who knows...  ) The one thing I'm certain of is that I've never felt this confident before. The girls have really nothing I need so they have no power over me anymore. I have no need to be scared or nothing. It's almoust too good to be true!
The first thing that scared me when i began "my experiment" was that after 4 weeks or so there was a period where the girls didn't seem as interesting to me as before. I felt I had started to loose my sexdrive  But then I came in my sleep so I guess there was no real damage done. I got the sexdrive back too and maybe even slightly stronger than before 
I've now gone on without masturbating for bout 5 months. First my goal was to reach 6 months but now there seemsto be no reason to stop. The benefits outweight the pleasure for me i guess.
The only downside to all this I've discovered is that i can't help coming in sleep every now and then  (do they make male tampons!?) Well, new sheets and boxers and it's all good.
In the end I think quitting masturbation is propably a lot like quitting smoking, drugs, alcohol etc. or going on a diet. The start is always the hardest part and all you really need is motivation, determination and something to put all your newfound freedom and spare energy to...(something like writing super-long messages on internet forums? Whuuh...I need a girlfriend, baaadddd) Miia, what's up? |
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and find that if i stop for a few days i feel more energetic and can wake up easier in the morning, but if i start again i get tired and can't wake up easily
