Masturbation and Virginity

I masterbate, but I have not had sex before. At first when I penetrated to a certain point it would hurt so I wouldn't go there anymore. Now I can penetrate very deeply, but I haven't felt any pain. Have I lost my virginity?

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I masterbate, but I have not had sex before. At first when I penetrated to a certain point it would hurt so I wouldn't go there anymore. Now I can penetrate very deeply, but I haven't felt any pain. Have I lost my virginity?

NO...You can only lose your virginity by penetration by a PENIS...Do not worry about it...although some guys are shallow enough to not want to date someone who has broken the hymen, they are rapidly decreasing in number, although it does depend on where you live...In America it doesn't really matter to most people, but in places like India, you'd be in big trouble if you had masturbated...

Guest wrote:

I masterbate, but I have not had sex before. At first when I penetrated to a certain point it would hurt so I wouldn't go there anymore. Now I can penetrate very deeply, but I haven't felt any pain. Have I lost my virginity?

Virginty depends on person to person. Some feel if your hymen has been torn you are no longer a virgin, be it torn from maturbation or sexual intercourse. Some say you can have anal and oral sex and still be a virgin, while others consider anal and oral sex a form of sexual intercourse, so your no longer a virgin. You have to figure out what you feel defines you as a virgin. Personaly, I think if you take part in oral, anal, vaginal, or mutual masturbation your no longer a virgin. But again, this is different for everyone.