Menopause And Pregnancy

Deborah54 · Newbie Joined: 24 Aug 2007 Posts: 4

Sorry to hear that u lost your baby. I can understand well the feelings you are having.

Did u hear anything more from the other Deborah who had a tubal as well and was going to take the test. Was she pregnant?

Where I live... a woman who was 53 had a baby also and never had her period for a long while either. Don't know though if she had a tubal. I have heard of those with tubals getting pregnant again though.

I am in denial and think it is just muscle reflexes...canot see how I am with a tubal and all..one never knows though.

Thanks for letting me know how all is with u though and I am sure everything that happens is for a reason ...

Deborah

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Hi, Can someone help me? I am 46 have not had a period in 3 years and very bad hot flashes and night sweats for 6 years. I was raped and am having all pregnancy symptoms swelling and hurting breasts low pain. EVERYTHING. I took a home test twice both negative? Please can someone help?

Astrea · Newbie Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 1

Go to a doctor and get an exam. I've been where you are and you need help. Anything is possible. You need medical care and emotional help to get through this. It took me a long time to get help and you will diminish your pain if you do it earlier. A good resource for helping with the trauma is emofree.com. Good luck

Queenmaddamit · Newbie Joined: 11 Nov 2007 Posts: 2

Hi,
I am 44 and think I am pregnant, or is it peri menopause? I have had a couple of light type periods. I know my grandmother was in her late 60's and still in pre menopause.
My gut says I am pregnant. I have 3 already. My son is 25 and I have a grandson who is 2.
I have my girls at home one just turned 17 and the other is almost 6. I have tender breasts , pee a lot and my body is definitely doing something...
OMG ! I have so many mixed up feelings. I am thinking I should wait and see if I have any period next month at all before I take a test.???
I am so glad I found this site. I know now I am not alone. I need to know how other women and maybe men too, have coped during and after finding this out.
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Queenmaddamit · Newbie Joined: 11 Nov 2007 Posts: 2

"Sorry to hear that u lost your baby. I can understand well the feelings you are having."

I am also sorry for your loss. You have endured a very tumolterous time. There is hope though. I too had a tubal pregnancy before and I also endured miscarriages as well.
Its more than just possible to have a healthy pregnancy out come after one.
Give yourself time to heal, and grieve it is natural and healthy to do so . May I offer you a piece of advice. As little as it may seem at the moment. The spirit that was only with you for a moment in time will stay as part of your memory forever. Yet this sprit had nothing to fulfill in this life except for intertwining with your spirit and bless you with love and hope. Be grateful for the moment and embrace each one as incredible as the next. whether it be filled with joy or tears for these are the moments... Blessings with Love a friend.

oops · Newbie Joined: 01 Apr 2007 Posts: 5

[quote="Queenmaddamit"]
I am 44 and think I am pregnant, or is it peri menopause? I have had a couple of light type periods. I know my grandmother was in her late 60's and still in pre menopause.
My gut says I am pregnant. I have 3 already. My son is 25 and I have a grandson who is 2.
I have my girls at home one just turned 17 and the other is almost 6. I have tender breasts , pee a lot and my body is definitely doing something...

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Ohh Queen!! Well if I were you (I'm 47 now) with those symptoms I would bite the bullet grab not just one test but probably three and go for it! The reason I say 3 is if # 1 Comes up negative I would not trust that and wait a day or so and try again. The tests now are pretty early detection and sensitive. I have even myself gotten them at a dollar store for $1.00! Which beats drug store prices, the dollar store version is not quite as handy but works! I think rather than make your self crazy wondering thats where I would start. Take a deep breath and go for it and we're here too. I know exactly how your feeling!
~Sandy Shocked

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Hello my name is Patty and i'm 49 years old and going nuts 'cause I too have the symptoms of a pregnancy, although my tubes were tied in 1992, the feelings are very strong, let me tell you I have had no hot flashes or menopause symptoms but my period did stop in august of 2007 then i started having sleepiness, nausea vomiting and all the symptoms of a pregnancy, I too have four kids ages 31 to 15 and three grandkids ranging from 13 to 3mo old, Im sure you knoe what a fool I' feeling as to think that I might be pregnant, but my stomach is swollen and Big and definitely somethinf moves inside, I took two test kits and one came poditive and the second negative, but i ask myself how can this be possible Am I going crazy please need your help SOOON. Thanks

annajanine2000 · Newbie Joined: 29 Mar 2008 Posts: 1

I have question, hoping someone can answer. I have these symptoms, lower pain pains, I had morning sicks for about 2 weeks, my period was 1 day and not like a period, all I did was spot, my breast are more firm and was very sore for a couple of days, I have lose weight in my legs and butt, i have body cramps, and I am so tired all the time. I have take 2 home pregnancy time and a blood time and they show negative. My body just feels different. I am so calm the last couple of weeks and my mind has been wondering. I can I be pregnancy an my hormones not showing it. Can anyone get me advice.

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