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 Posted: 06/24/08 - 08:23 Post subject: |
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My husband also verbally abuses me. He is an Asian Canadian. I don't think it has anytihng to do with your religion or culture. Its how your parents raised you.
He yells at me in front of his family. We dont have any kids. He pushed me twice last time when we had a fight. His parents were standing there. No one moved. No one told him that he is wrong. I dont think anyone even felt that he pushed me. He swears at me. Says I'm not sexy, I'm not thin, styles don't suit me. I can;t keep his prents happy.
All this happened just because his sister wants to know when will I have kids. She wants to know if we are trying or not. Is it wrong if I dont want to discuss it with her. And he told everyone that we've been triyng.
Life of Asian women is nothing more that piece of crap. |
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| Posted: 07/01/08 - 18:02 Post subject: what can i do??? |
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| I` been in the same situation as everybody else i had a very unhealty relationship with my husband he used to hit me very hard not just that he also hurt me with his offenses and insults, he left for good 3 week ago i am confused I dont Know if that was rigth o r not we have a son and i want him to grow with his dad, but i also want him to grow in a nice family and what we had wasnt close to it i Know I love him but i cant live with him .................. |
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| Posted: 07/01/08 - 23:10 Post subject: My Husband Hit me and use words |
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| I have been married for 7 years; I have 2 girls; have a good relationship with my family, work a full time job. My problem is my husband…well he doesn't do household chores.. He likes to spend money and time, for friends and drinks.. My husband also verbally abuses me (cursing at me and cursing at my family by him). He always talks about my past life. He always tells that I slept with other man. I can’t even talk to a guy. If I talk to a guy he think that I sleep with them and all.. my husband has hit me numerous times always when we've fought about something silly. He hit me (punched my chin). I can’t sleep some nights after the way he hit me. I just can’t get that picture out of my mind. It is distracting me, my work and my relations with him. He also tried to cover it up by telling family that he didn’t hit me;. The next day my face was swollen and I took pictures as well to prove it. He has major controlling issues and I can't take his anger and this fear of being hit again by him. He is always angry about everything in life. Even if I ask him one simple question, answers me with irritation and bad attitude. My kids also know about his character until my daughter told me today that she never expect the father like that. Why he doing this to us. Not spending time with us always friends and drinks only. She also told that she having some fear don’t know when the father going to hit the mother. I truly very sad about my kids. I scared that it might affect their brain. I worried that it might affect their future. Poor girls. I don’t mind if their boys. One day he loves and adores me and when we fight he swears and says the most incredibly cruel things to me I cry every day and night and i am completely confused....should I leave him or give him one more chance. What should I do? I don’t want to tell my family. Please Help |
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| Posted: 08/28/08 - 11:09 Post subject: These bludy men should be killed |
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| Well when I read somethings here I felt that men are the worst thing to be created by God. They should be crusified. Bludy thr mothers who bring them up like this should be dragged on road and slapped 10 times then these bitches should be killed. Dont even lay back just slap ur husband whenever possible bcoz men who cant respect thr wifes are fit for nothing. Rather I feel we should slap them whenever we get a chance. We should actually leave them but unfotunately we women get scared of the outcomes |
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| Posted: 09/27/08 - 15:00 Post subject: Re: i don't know if it's wrong |
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| Kelly1813 wrote: | | My husband has hit me numerous times always when we've fought about something silly. He's European and thinks that because he didn't punch me, he just slaps and hits hard, that it's normal and I hit him too so we're even. I have only hit him in defense or retalliation. I don't know what to do about this? Today we're not speaking to each other. His mood changes from day to day too. One day he loves and adores me and when we fight he swears and says the most incredibly cruel things to me. What should I do? |
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Wow I feel like you have just read my mind and written it all on paper for me. My husband is exactly the same. One minute he idolises me, the next he's hitting me and throwing things at me. Yesterday he threw a mug of coffee in my face and then threw the mug and cut open my leg. Its the second time he's hurt me and I thought I made it clear by moving from New Zealand back to the UK to get away from him that that behavior is unacceptable. I feel like I'm crazy holding onto hope that things are going to work out. There are two breeds of men, those who hit and those who don't. I think I'm going to put aside the love i feel for him and go in search of a decent man. Don't we all deserve that?! |
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| Posted: 11/30/08 - 02:47 Post subject: Re: I can relate |
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My husband has been hitting me for the past 10 years, probably about 15-20 times. He has manipulated me into thinking that I was the problem. He keeps text messaging me in paranoia. I finally came clean with my family about the physical abuse. I protected him from everyone and everything and now I am done. I always use to blame myself and I was so angry all the time about anything and everything. But now, I know why. Ever since I left, I haven't been angry and my soul is getting by.
I think that you should leave your husband. Once an abuser, it's hard to manage unless you are in therapy.
I will be praying for you because I'm in the same situation. My husband it was all about image, image, IMAGE and I'm done. |
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