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kyla
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 Posted: 06/22/06 - 00:00 Post subject: My husband is always angry |
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I have been married for 12 years and have two great kids and a good relationship with my family. My problem is my husband…well he doesn't do household chores, unless he feels like it. He likes to spend money, two cars…but what’s not acceptable is his anger. I've been the subject of verbal abuse, spitting, choking and cursing, so I decide to get separated. He hit me once and was arrested and charged. I can't take his anger and this fear any more. He is always angry.
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iorio
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| Posted: 07/03/06 - 12:52 Post subject: |
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Your husband has obviously made some mistaken ideas about what is acceptable behavior at home. First you need to talk to your husband and find out what his concerns are. It’s time for you and your husband to sit down and talk, nice calmly and kindly. Why don’t you tell him what you like about the changes he has made in his behavior and ask him what it would take on your part to consistently bring out the best in him? Anyway…I think I will live the man who is always angry.
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| Posted: 11/20/06 - 18:56 Post subject: |
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| Mine too. I'm numb. Unable to be decent mother, friend, sister..... what the hell do you do? |
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myhusbandismean
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| Posted: 04/28/08 - 09:07 Post subject: i know how you feel |
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| my husband is also very angry, he gets mad over the littlest things, i'm so tired of waking up and being afraid of what's going to piss him off today, if anyone has any advice i would gladly appreciate it because i don't know what to do. thank you. |
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| Posted: 06/02/08 - 00:28 Post subject: |
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I too am going through the same thing 12 yrs of marriage and 2 kids. Filing for the divorce was the hardest thing to do, but what I come to learn through all this is that it is him not me. The men in your life obviously have an anger problem that won't get resolved unless they get help professionally. My experience iwith my husband is that he is physically and mentally abusive. I literally had to walk on eggshells to prevent him from getting angry. My advice to you ladies is to NOT take this abuse, it will get worse I know I stayed for 12 years. Now my children too have to pay the price for his inconsiderate behavior.
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Rosa Gallardo
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| Posted: 07/17/08 - 17:51 Post subject: my husband finds everything offensive |
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my husband finds everything offensive for him everybody is trying to be better than him or evrybody is trying to harm him or every body is trying to give him false information my husband is wiered  also he says that me and him are stresserd out he tells me to find a friend to talk to i do now he gets upset
because we get invited to do cook outs now he says i want us to be alone
i dont want them to go with us now we fight and my 4 children are hearing us fight. he is a very hard person to talk to help please  |
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