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bair
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 Posted: 08/04/05 - 02:00 Post subject: No Foreplay, No Touching..soo Frustrating |
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Hello. I’m pretty desperate and that’s why I decided to write about this. I don’t know whom else to talk about this.
You see, I’ve been dating my boyfriend now for almost a year now and we've been having sex almost from the day we met.
But there is one problem in our sex life. My boyfriend is acting like he’s schoolboy. We have never had a proper foreplay before sex, no touching, no kissing, none…We just end up having a rough sex for a couple of minutes with almost all our clothes on. I really believed that, with time, it will get better and that I could maybe soft him a bit, but, after a year, everything is same. He is really a nice guy and I would like to make things better. Please tell me what I could do.
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redic
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| Posted: 10/28/05 - 07:47 Post subject: |
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I'm very sorry to hear that you’re having these kinds of problems but believe me, you are not alone. Some of my friends also complained on the same stuff. I'm very sorry to say this but it it’s a fact that mutual sexual satisfaction is still a mystery to some men.
All they think about is having and orgasm as quicker as they can and when ever they want.
So, you must stop this for good. Living him would probably be the best solution but I understood that you don’t want to do it! So, your only option is to talk with him about it. Tell him that that he needs to pay more attention on the fact that he needs to please you or you are not going to have sex anymore! It’s simple. Take away from him what he needs the most-sex! I wish you luck and I hope he will understand your message.
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| I think it's unfortunate that people view men that way. I'm currently having the same problem with my girlfriend. It always seem that every time she wants to have sex, she won't allow me to touch her. She touches me however she wants, but whenever I try anything she immediately cuts me off. I can try to give her a deep passionate kiss but she turns away after a couple seconds, if I try to touch her anywhere on her body she moves her shoulder or hand to push my hand away. It's just not any fun if I can't participate. I just pretty much have to lay there during foreplay and let her do what she wants, then during sex I still can't touch or kiss her at all. If I say anything about it then it kills the mood, then we're both upset. |
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