No bleeding after having sex for the first time

zahs · Newbie Joined: 15 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

my name is Shazia!I had sex with my boyfriend a few months back for the first time.he entered me and i was pretty tight. But surprising what ever i heard earlier of bleeding immediately after having sex the first time pruved out 2b abs wrong!datz bcoz i just din bleed...

now due to misunderstandings and other problems...my bf thinks dat i just lied 2him dat i was a virgin when we had sex!But d truth is i was a VIRGIN!Now the whole world is up n crazy trying to break our relationship saying nonsense lyk i was not a virgin and im a liar.

but i love him a lot and i was always truthful...so plz tell me how do i actually let him know dat bleeding dusn't always take place after having sex d 1st tym???I am dying....i can't live witout him and he isn't bilivin me!Wat do i do to make him biliv this no bleeding fact??

Plz HELP!!

rj90 · Supporter Joined: 10 Nov 2006 Posts: 94

No offence but your boyfriend is fucked. I your case a hymen can be torn in many other ways, such as fingering, the use of tampons or even activities like riding a bike, a horse or doing gymnastics. Also try remember have you ever noticed bleeding before sex like during masturbating or after any physical activity? NOTE: bleeding doesnt mean you are NOT a virgin. Anyhow best of luck i hope it all works out for you.

No bleeding after having sex for the first time

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