Not cuming during sex. only masterbation

ZUES65z · Newbie Joined: 29 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

i am 17yo male. As the name says... i cum during masterbation all the time but never during sex. girlfriend thinks its her fault and shes not attractive (as women feel) when its obviously not.

She said she looked up on it and found that...
1) wanking too much makes it harder to cum during sex
2) staying in same position for long time makes you cum
3) not being nervous helps too
-i.e. not worrying about parents knowing etc etc

I havent tried these yet, but am going to soon. Ive searched on other forums and people say that its just that you cant. but ive been so close to several times but havent. Is it just that i havnt yet but will soon... or do some people not actually cum.

Guest · Guest

Im 17 and i got the Same problem here.
I can masturbate and cum but when me and my gurl have sex i cant cum.
Im not sure if its because we always run out of time or if its that i masturbate 2 much.
Anybody got info on this?

Guest · Guest

Try not to masturbate the day you have sex give your body at least a day to produce more sperm.

Guest · Guest

I am 19 and all through my sex life i have only cum once during sex and that was after a whole weekend 3 sessions and many many hours... masturbation is no prob... i want to find a way to fix this.... the way i found to cum was obviously alot of sex over a long period of time and staying still not doing anything while she went on top slowly and the n gradually faster over a long period... so worth it

JB9900 · Supporter Joined: 25 Feb 2008 Posts: 178

If you can all cum when you masturbate then there is nothing wrong with your bodies. This is likely to be a psychological problem - made worse by anxiety. Try and relax. It may be that you are sub-consciously worried about getting your girlfriend pregnant? Make sure that you take precautions (use a condom) to help this. Try getting your girlfriend to masturbate you so that you cum. It may be that you are nervous of her seeing this very private act. If you are both willing, you can masturbate in front of each other too. I'm sure that once you have cum with your girlfriend the first time everything will then be fine. Let us know how you get on. John

Not cuming during sex. only masterbation

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