Posted: 05/02/06 - 13:46 Post subject: Older Virgin
i'm a 25 year old women and i plan on making love to my boyfriend(im on ysam). I have waitied and i'll fully ready however i must add that i'm still worried that i may be in pain or not perform well. He is 28 and has been with one girl in the past, which is comforting to me but i'm still scared. I have pleasure myself with a vibrator but i'm still concerned i may bleed. Is there anythingi should be aware of prior to? Thanks
Posted: 05/03/06 - 10:38 Post subject: Re: Older Virgin
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i'm a 25 year old women and i plan on making love to my boyfriend(im on ysam). I have waitied and i'll fully ready however i must add that i'm still worried that i may be in pain or not perform well. He is 28 and has been with one girl in the past, which is comforting to me but i'm still scared. I have pleasure myself with a vibrator but i'm still concerned i may bleed. Is there anythingi should be aware of prior to? Thanks
It seems that you are already aware of everything you need to be aware. Pain and mild bleeding are most likely to occur but are nothing to worry about. If you are with someone you love, there could be mild discomfort upon entering but it should be fun!
Just don’t laugh if things don’t go as smooth, guys hate that and may be disturbed!
You could make sure that your vagina is wet before he enters it. You can accomplish this by having foreplay, so that you would be arousad and wet enough. If wetness doesn’t occur spontaniosuly, you could get some vaginal lubricant before the intercourse.
When you are choosing between lubricants, make sure you choose those that are water based because they usually don’t irritate vaginal area and cavity like other lubricants may.
My first time I bleed a little. But the guy didn't really care for it. And he was really rough too. So be sure to tell him be gentle and go slow. At least for now! :wink: And give him a fare warning that a little blood might be envolved. And might I suggest using some sort of protection. I hope you enjoy yourself
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