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I have been dating an older guy at the age of 17 me and him have been trying to concieve but i dont know if he can have kids due to the fact that he is an alcoholic and a recovering addict to cocaine but also i dont know if i can have kids due to the fact i smoke ciggarettes and drink and smoke weed are us trying to concieve and the things we do affect us from concieving a child. Crying or Very sad

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2719

OF COURSE.

Doing drugs not only make conception difficult, but you could easily have a baby with SERIOUS HEALTH PROBLEMS.

IF you want children so badly at 17, you should also CARE ABOUT PUTTING DRUGS IN THEM.

Get clean, BOTH OF YOU, and you can have a healthy pregnancy.

kades · Newbie Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 32

You defintely need to get clean before you both even think about having a baby a healthy one at that...not to be rude but it is kinda selfish to make a child go through your drug habbits...your child doesn't have a choice but YOU do

nashvillesugapie · Newbie Joined: 20 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

You are the perfect example of someone who needs to have their reproduction privledges REVOKED. Some people weren't meant to breed, and you, obviously, are one of them. You are selfish, immature and I am personally disgusted that you would even consider bringing a child into this world under the circumstances that you just described. Shame on you. You ARE a kid-you certainly don't NEED a kid.

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