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AnonomousPlease
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 Posted: 11/18/06 - 05:52 Post subject: Only full erection for masterbation, not sex... |
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So I guess I get the chance to have sex often but I cant really get hard.
im totally hard for masterbation, but when it comes to sex we get up there and were about to and i often cant.
im underage [16] but often have had a shot or two before i do it with a girl,
and maybe a cigarette which may have effected me
im wondering any tips on making sure i can?
i went to have sex twice tonight and both times was like yeah sorry cant idk whats wrong :X |
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Mick
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| Posted: 11/18/06 - 10:58 Post subject: |
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It is probably an anxiety that is affecting your performance. If you can do it with masturbation, it means that there's nothing wrong with you physically.
Smoking does affect circulation but one cigarette will not affect your erection.
If you think too much about how you will do, that might be the reason it is bailing out on you when it really matters.
Just relax and enjoy whatever you are doing, don't stress about whether you will be cool or not and everything should be ok. |
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| Posted: 11/26/06 - 16:03 Post subject: |
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| I have the same problem......everything works fine when me and my girlfriend do the preliminary things (masturbation etc), but when I put on the condom and get ready to have sex, it becomes soft....what can I do? |
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Alefas
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| Posted: 11/28/06 - 20:39 Post subject: |
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| anybody have any explanations???? |
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| Posted: 12/08/06 - 02:14 Post subject: |
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| It could just be your confidence (doesn’t sound likely) or even that you simply take too long to put the condom on (good job for using one bty). try to have it ready and slip it on quick so that you don’t get soft and be sure that you really are hard before you put on the condom. |
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| Posted: 03/31/07 - 05:30 Post subject: |
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Yeah thanks for this, Im 18 years old and i have this problem alot, I guess what your sayng is you need to be hard completely?
But also, when you try toget the girl to get you really hard they dont wanna...
Also Condoms are my best friend, I feel like i cant have sex unless its with the old C. lol..
Thanks again tho, this really helped my Boost  |
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